How Many People Here Are actually Autistic or have Aspergers

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08 Dec 2008, 11:50 pm

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I never assumed that I could spot people with autism or AS, not do I care to, so I should have been more specific. I meant that it was obvious from the way some people lead into their posts, for example "I'm not AS but I suspect it".
All I wanted to know is who is and who isn't. I don't care who posts here, after all they let me post here so it isn't a closed or invitational discussion board like some are.


And your querry is legitimate. Curiosity of other's Dx would be expected, yes? We're amongst friends, so garyww's question is valid and may be a way of establishing a dynamic amongst us...sort-of the 'Who's who of the Autistic Spectrum,' yes? And garyww has not insinuated any accusatory manner, just a question. Therefore, I answer in turn. Mutually understood, garyww.

Some on WP has different stories, some tragically sad, of how their 'discovered' their AS (or related diagnosis) and some are not officially Dxed but has sufficient cause to warrant this diagnostic label. Then some have chosen to pursue an offical Dx. This is acceptable and some of the older Aspies here I hold in awe - they've been through a lot! This should be recognized too.

My autism is noticable but that's all right, I am cognitively & sensory enhanced too; the 'Autistic Chemist.' In some ways, my identity.

For some, perhaps like Age1600 who just posted above me, the autism is noticable. And I like what Age1600 just wrote (!): paraphrase, "Basic autism at its best." Right on Age1600!

Another on Wrong Planet wrote about not just classic autism, but baroque autism, etc. Yes, why not?


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08 Dec 2008, 11:53 pm

Someone once noticed the view numbers are all equally divisible by three. I think you can safely divide the views by three to get an accurate number of views. I myself have been here a few times...not sure if it counts every view by the same member.

Also, if you are not willing to go by profiles, then what? Do you think they will lie in their profile and then fess up when asked directly?

I think the thread is interesting.



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08 Dec 2008, 11:53 pm

I lived in Wasilla for many years


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08 Dec 2008, 11:55 pm

Was trying to figure out "what's wrong with this picture" (regarding this thread) when Labpet's post nailed it; I'm not here to judge such things. Simply to observe, share, and try to understand.

I also have attended an adult aspie meet in my hometown and had the opportunity to see and interact with a number of people at various points on the spectrum. It is WIDE. Some are auties, some aspies. The differences in behavior, habits, and traits is pronounced. We VARY. If you're really curious about it, I suggest finding one such group near you. Discover for yourself.

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09 Dec 2008, 12:01 am

LabPet wrote:
And garyww has not insinuated any accusatory manner, just a question.
I disagree. I found the original post to be very insinuating and accusatory. I myself do not claim to have Aspergers, but can see how those diagnosed would take offense. I do not mind if aspies think I should not be here; sometimes I agree.



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09 Dec 2008, 12:02 am

I don't care about who or who doesn't lie. I asked who here is on the spectrum, at either end. If I wanted to look it up I would have. I asked the question. People are making replies so don't go looking for motives where none exist.


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09 Dec 2008, 12:04 am

garyww wrote:
I don't care about who or who doesn't lie. I asked who here is on the spectrun, at either end. If I wanted to look it up I would have. I asked the question. People are making replies so don't go looking for motives where none exist.


Easy there, tiger.
If you haven't already guessed it- this is the ASD forum where instead of being blind to subtext and inuendo (as is a typical trait of people on the spectrum) most participants here actually excell at improvising the non-existent discourse of e-conversation.

In other words- many of us love to argue and make points where none need to be made.

You'll get used to it.

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09 Dec 2008, 12:05 am

Re.
regulars.
this 'regular user' will not post when others tell her to do,or where to do it,why attempt the baiting when the thread looks busy enough before middle/around middle?

am have classic autism [severe] with extras [learning,neuro,physical or neuro-doctors still trying to work that one out].
if want to find out basics of what autism form someone has,have a look in their signature,as it may be there,many do use signature to put it,because it saves re writing constantly in posts that need it.


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09 Dec 2008, 12:11 am

I think that was the point to begin with. open discussion and argument if it came to that.


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09 Dec 2008, 12:12 am

I was diagnosed, at the age of 5 and a half.


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09 Dec 2008, 12:18 am

You can look at my You Tube videos and see whether or not I appear to be a tad "atypical" for a 33 year old female. (link below)



09 Dec 2008, 12:26 am

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I always wondered if anybody can tell if im autistic by the way i type or what my posts are about. i have mini videos of me on the ning network, i'm prob add more soon, jsut right now haven't got a chance to take any new videos. i only put videos of me from my cell because thats the only way i know how to, if i figure out how to put other videos on, ill put some on of me signing for class also. anyways i'm diagnosed, i'm an autie, and a touretter, if you met me you'd see it both in me, depending on the situation, time, day, place, and how long you hang with me your either see me as severely or high functioning if you spend the whole day with me your see im just around moderate haha, because i can seem only high functioning for a little bit then the rest of the time its basic autism at its best lol.



I can only tell by what you write about yourself.



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09 Dec 2008, 12:27 am

garywww wrote:
I've only been here a few days and it already seems to me that a huge number of the people who post probably don't have Aspergers and certainly aren't autustic in the traditional sense of the word so is this just a social free-for-all or catch-all for everybody who thinks they are a little weird and strange.


Dude, if you had were to spend a few days with me in person, you probably would assume I do not have AS. And it is MUCH harder to tell from typed statements. For me, the challenge of AS is not in the CONCEPT of social skills, but in the fast paced interaction requiring rapid analyzation of multiple sources of data. When discussing things online however, one can choose who and what and where to respond. So it comes across as very "NT" perhaps.

But even then, I can function VERY well in the minute to minute social functions in the NT world, because I've learned to. So, the only point I'm trying to make is to say that there is no way to really judge someones 'neural-status' based on their posts. If someone shares their experiences that DIRECTLY contradict autism, then sure, you can judge them to be not autistic. But good social skills in an online forum are not reason to diagnose someone as 'neurotypical'.



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09 Dec 2008, 12:29 am

I just realized how rude I was with the question. It never occured to me to lead into it a little better.
I am 62 years old. I was diagnosed with Aspergers late in life when it started affecting my work.
I am able to live on my own. I am married (for the 4th time now).
My quirk is pattern recognition so I work a lot (free lance) for colleges doing computer graphics and transliterations of ancient graphic alphabetic scripts.
My real world work used to be architecture for about 40 years where I was a partner in a medium sized firm.
I enjoy being where I am and who I am.


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09 Dec 2008, 12:31 am

I didn't mind the question that you've asked. The only stupid question is the one that doesn't get asked.


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09 Dec 2008, 12:33 am

garyww wrote:
I just realized how rude I was with the question. It never occured to me to lead into it a little better.
I am 62 years old. I was diagnosed with Aspergers late in life when it started affecting my work.
I am able to live on my own. I am married (for the 4th time now).
My quirk is pattern recognition so I work a lot (free lance) for colleges doing computer graphics and transliterations of ancient graphic alphabetic scripts.
My real world work used to be architecture for about 40 years where I was a partner in a medium sized firm.
I enjoy being where I am and who I am.


Wellll.... don't ever let it happen again. :wink:
Since I've never had a job for longer than 6 months on the average you are lightyears ahead of me in functionality.