The third person usage....

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I refer to myself most of the time as "We", I don't have DID or anything but I feel like more of a "we" than "me" if that makes sense :lol:

I've never heard of any correlation to autism and "third-person speaking". It's probably the general ignorant misconception of "Autism = ret*d".

In the matter of the third person topic

I have been a mother for almost 36 years and I have been referring to myself as someone's mother for that long. A habit of mind, of mine.

ColdBlooded occasionally speaks in the third-person, but that's just when ColdBlooded joking around.. Not actually confusing the language.

Well, I actually often refer to myself in the second-person.
As in: "You this" and "You that" and "You so forth and so on"....
Like I were outside of myself, addressing myself, directly.
Every once in a while I will talk about myself in the third-person.
This usually happens when I am off on one of my solitary monologues, talking to myself, out loud.

The bottom line here is that, YES; I demonstrate an odd sense of self-perspective.

That's funny. I remember some officer got on my husband (who was my boyfriend at the time) for the hat thing in the dining facility at our first duty station. My husband just put it on like 4 feet early, and he flipped. In basic, I got a hard time for my hair getting messed up because of the hat. They'd ask me if I let a chicken dance on my head and told me I was out of uniform. I eventually found the best thing for the hair for females under that hat was ProStyle gel (in the ethnic hair section at Walmart). I personally liked basic training. It was relaxing to have someone do all the thinking for you. I didn't even have to worry about when to pee because they told me. I slept better there too. I kinda wish I could sleep on that bunk again with all the military issued bedding just for old times sake. I wonder if I could find those blankets at an army surplus store. Anyway, I couldn't fold my t-shirt. They issued us the really cheap ones that kept stretching in some parts and shrinking in others, so it wasn't easy to work with. My TI had me tweezing for hours and i still had to have other people do it for me when it came time for inspections. My husbands shirts he got were decent. I would be able to fold those easy. His TI made them buy and use Sofee shirts too, but the crap he got before buying those was better than what I got.

Oh, and my TI, he didn't bother me at all. He got in my face once, and I finally drew the courage to make eye contact which it was then that I realized he was just as afraid as I was. Then that scared him because of course when I noticed, the fear left my eyes quickly and then I just had a feel sorry for him type of look. Then he kept up in my face, so then I turned it into a flirty thing without being too obvious (what else am I going to do when a man's face is right in mine and our lips are like inches apart). Being that he was married and new at that job, he avoided me from that point on. Though, I do suspect he wondered how far I would have gone with that.

After reading some posts, I realize I do both the WE thing and the YOU thing. Like when I talk to myself, I say we all the time. But that habit didn't really start until after I was pregnant with my first child. But for whatever reason, I have a hard time stopping it now.

The YOU, I tend to do that here (in times when I'm typing without much editing). Like if I'm telling a story about myself, I'm good. But, if I start getting into philosophy at all, then the you's start popping out. I worry because sometimes I mean you to be I, sometimes I mean it to be the world or people in general, and sometimes I mean it to be you all, and sometimes I mean it to be you specifically, and whoever is reading it generally will have a small clue to what I mean with context, but it's not always so obvious and I worry because my you for the world in general might be mean and someone might wonder if I meant that about them and take it wrong.

If I'm tired, or if a conversation is in any way overwhelming, I tend to refer to myself in the third person. With tiredness, it's because being tired scrambles my word-retrieval, so my pronoun usage is messed up. If the conversation is overwhelming, it's partly because the overwhelmingness screws up my word retrieval, and partly a distancing thing.
Occasionally, also, statements about myself will be made in the 3rd person; usually if it's something that I haven't said about myself before. I don't know why this is.

She is probably referring to people with language problems, who are usually referred to as "autistic" by many psychiatrists, whereas those with AS aren't. Many with Autism retain their delay of language ability into adulthood and its associated quirks, even if they have reasonably ok expressive speech.

I know I spoke in third person as a child [when I did], and if you speak to me personally now, you'll find that I refer to myself as Daniel often instead of the pronoun "I".

A remnant of my language problems (it's just more comfortable).

I made a thread about this a long time ago here: http://www.wrongplanet.net/postt44555.html

I think that referring to self in the third person is more of something that's associated with Classic/Kanner's autism. My 7 y/o never once used the words I, me, or my before he was 4 in a half yrs old. It was always "Nathaniel want juice." and when his language picked up around the age of 4 he began to use pronouns, but got those mixed up, too. He'd say something like "you need help" when he was really meaning "I need help". He still gets pronouns mixed up from time to time now, but he seldom ever refers to himself in third person now. I do know that third person usage, and pronoun reversal is something that doctors really look for when diagnosing kids. The doctor that diagnosed my son said out loud when he made these language errors that she was baiting him into conversations to where he'd have to use those words to see how he'd say them. I think she really struggled to figure out where on the spectrum he was, and what exactly to diagnose him with. It was obvious that he was autistic, but the language struggles really sealed the deal for her that he couldn't be diagnosed with AS. Though, I do remember my parents saying that I referred to myself in third person a lot when I was under the age of 5. They had no idea about autism. They just thought that I had an odd imagination, and named an imaginary friend after myself.

i dont know, ive never referd to myself in the third person. i probably more than likely repeat myself however my favorite person who talks in the third person is defintley rickey henderson

I did this too at that age. Thanks for your informative post. Is this type of language thing also considered an Asperger trait? Or just Kanner's?

I have never knew or seen any people in my life talk in the third person. I hate it though, it sounds so stupid and annoying. The last time I saw someone talk in the third person was on an episode of Seinfeld called "The Jimmy" where Jimmy talked in the 3rd person.

Hah, I do this occasionally, though it's usually by accident. It sort of slips out, and then I realize that it doesn't make any sense and so I correct myself. No idea why I do that.

As far as I know it's considered a strong indicator of ASD/PDD, but I don't know that it points to a specific ASD. There are so many factors that can go into account when a clinician is making a diagnosis. If you had no other speech delays in childhood, then I'd think that you could be considered to have Aspereger's. My son did, so that's why he couldn't be dxed as AS. He also had very little social speech, extreme echolalia, and idiosyncratic speech patterns, ie, he answered most of the doctor's questions with the phrase "buffalo chicken" because that was his echoliac phrase at that time. He was dxed by 2 doctors as PDD-NOS.

lol. Don't forget Cowboy Bebop and Edward

yeah ive heard of the idea of autistic people referring to themselves in the third person. It depends on the person, and IIRC isn't it "LFA" people who more do that