Has anyone benefited from taking martial arts?
odd thing is, all my years of the arts were before i knew i had aspergers. it just felt right, that's all.
i enrolled my 7 yr old autistic boy in karate, he will not go through what i went through in youth
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You could learn what you could from watching educational videos, if need be.
I can recommend studying the martial arts from my limited experience. Practicing (even alone) is often better than stimming for achieving inner peace.
I've seen a tai-chi master and one of his students sparring, they were really fast. He explained that the movments of tai-chi were both calming for the mind and defensive (when the moves are well known). Though I did TaeQuanDo. Martial arts do make you feel more confident and change the way you move as well.
Though, I wouldn't do anything risky because of learning a martial art. My teacher always said that if you could avoid or escape the bad situation in the first place it's better, that the self defence was a last resort. We were taught a few moves to stun and run as well as other moves and patterns.
I know that Tai-Chi masters can be formidable in defending themselves. I got the impression that a beginner would take longer to achieve that than other forms of martial arts. I was amazed how quickly I learned a few practical methods of self-defense in Aikido,for example.
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I've studied Tai Chi (both Chen and Yang styles), Kung Fu (Northern Praying Mantis and Ba Gua Zhang styles), Judo, and Okinawan Karate (Goju Ryu and Shorin Ryu styles) for several years (currently studying Karate, Judo, and Tai Chi). I started for the fitness benefits (I'm 6'3", so self-defense isn't usually an issue), but love the mental aspects and have come to appreciate the self-defense applications too.
From a fitness perspective, the martial arts are probably the best all around training program you could design. They build strength, stamina, balance, coordination, speed, and flexibility. They have a focus on core strength which makes them great cross training for any other sport. They're fun, which makes them easy to stick with, and they don't require any special equipment.
On the mental side, I find them very calming, and a good antidote for the stress of work and life. Socialization in the Dojo is usually pretty low key, and there is always something (martial arts) to talk about, which helps. The fact that there is almost unlimited depth to the martial arts between history, theory, and practice, makes the martial arts great if you're looking for a new special interest. Testing can be a bit stressful, I think most people (Autistic or NT) get some performance anxiety, but this can be overcome.
My recommendation is to look for a school that feels right for you. If you have a good teacher, the martial art will be fun to study and you're more likely to stick with it. Some schools focus a lot on tournaments, which can really skew the experience. Some others let the senior students run rampant and make life miserable for junior students. Most schools that I've found have a nice focus though. Like most things in life, the more you put into it, the more you'll get out of it.
Good luck!
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I'm thinking of finding an MMA place. I don't really like traditional martial arts. Most places teach watered down versions, patterns are a waste of time to me, and I don't need to learn 720 degree tornado kicks.