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CerebralDreamer
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25 Aug 2009, 10:27 pm

ooOoOoOAnaOoOoOoo wrote:
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When will people learn to judge me for human traits, rather than acting like a bloody chimp? When will people begin to choose their partners on human traits, rather than acting like monkeys? I'm about ready to mark off most of the 'homosapien' population as apes unworthy of the label of 'human'. I'm tired of feeling buried alive, as if everyone's ready to slit my throat if the chance to get away with it arises.

Where are the humans? Where is my own kind? I'm tired of these insolent monkeys. They're trashing everything that hasn't been destroyed already.

Many people are uncomfortable with differences. They feel embarrassed or awkward and they are used to bonding with each other based on ways they are alike and sometimes they bond while discussing ways others are different from them and why these differences aren't as good. It gives them a feeling of security and confidence.
"We are better than so and so and we should pe proud and happy we are us and not them" .

Sometimes when people mature they become more accepting and feel guilty about treating others badly while some never feel guilty at all and feel justified their whole lives, like it's the right way to be and perfectly normal and nicer people are in the wrong for being what they call "PC".

Finding individuals who are accepting of differences is what plagues people of all kinds. That's why minorities say they are discriminated against. It's the same situation. People seem to be predisposed to discriminate. It's the norm, not the exception.

That's precisely my problem with normal individuals. They have such a propensity for discrimination that it's unnerving just to look at them. I've never had that type of problem, and there are NT individuals out there who are good, but as said above, they are the exception.

If NTs weren't about following parietal concepts and completely abandoning the very thing that defines our species, the frontal lobe, I might have a little more respect for them. The truth is they only use the frontal lobe as much as necessary, rather than using it to further their own personal development. That's where I see NTs as little more than monkeys.

As for those who are the exception, they aren't NT in my eyes. They're simply humans sticking out in a crowd of apes. Those who buck the norm by expressing tolerance and embracing free will command more respect from me than anyone else around. Those are the type of people I want in my life, but they're incredibly difficult to find in this messed up world.



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25 Aug 2009, 11:22 pm

Whilst there are some valid thoughts within this thread, Personal Attacks (of Neurotypicals in this instance) to violate Wrong Planet rules of conduct.
Understood Autistics can & do find Neurotypicals difficult to understand or not relatable, however, be mindful that attacking/insulting is not acceptable, such as saying one "hates Neurotypicals." We are all humans, Autist or NT, regardless of our neuropathy.

Excerpt from Wrong Planet rules of conduct - these will be followed:

Personal attacks.
This includes insinuation, ridicule and personal insults, regardless of whether direct or indirect. Attacking an opinion, belief or philosophy is acceptable, but attacking the person making the comments is not.


Otherwise, I shall lock this thread.



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26 Aug 2009, 3:32 am

CerebralDreamer wrote:
When will people learn to judge me for human traits, rather than acting like a bloody chimp?


I judge you for human traits and things you do, like ignoring my very sweet and considerate PM to you or posting such a thread as this one when you don't behave any better than those you lash out against, cause me not to like you.

If you want people who treat you nice, then start applying some compassion yourself.


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26 Aug 2009, 6:04 am

do not hate all NTs..everybody's different *wink

The word "neurotypical" is not synonymous to the word "judgemental" :D


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26 Aug 2009, 8:06 am

CerebralDreamer wrote:
As for those who are the exception, they aren't NT in my eyes. They're simply humans sticking out in a crowd of apes. Those who buck the norm by expressing tolerance and embracing free will command more respect from me than anyone else around. Those are the type of people I want in my life, but they're incredibly difficult to find in this messed up world.

I agree. People discriminate left and right and we are left reacting to one another. It's not fair. Most people aren't any better than anyone else. It's all in their minds and they create pretenses to justify themselves to themselves and others. It's very manipulative.



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26 Aug 2009, 8:34 am

Wow.

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26 Aug 2009, 10:08 am

CerebralDreamer, thank you for answering my PM now. I'm not angry anymore. As I was telling you by PM, your thread "Were we the artisans of old" has proven highly successful and insightful.


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