How do non-sociable people get girlfriends/boyfriends??

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Online mostly. I give a much better first impression online because most NT men can barely write. A few in real life but each one of those situations was different so i don't have any advice there. It doesn't seem to be that hard for me to do. The women I meet either really like me or find me utterly repulsive so it's not too hard, even for me, to read the signals.

Good question! Really, I can't meet girls anyhow, online or offline! I want it, can't get it anyhow! ARGH!

I would be out in public or at university and get approached by strangers. I didn't have to speak or socialise, but just appear a certain way to them.

I met my wife at the university. We did the laboratory together.

Most of the women I hahe been with have been fairly aggressive. That's cool as it opens doors. Once the relationship begins however that aggression becomes a problem. I don't do well with bossy partners. Lol

I would prefer someone more reserved and laid back. That person and I could never meet. We would walk right by each other.

OK Cupid.
Seriously, every guy I have seen since my late twenties I met through this site.

How to deal with a NT girl who have multiple NT pretendents??

I thinking about give up

Are you on stormfront?

The only girl I've really had a relationship with, I met on a Facebook app. She and I were from the same hometown, and we were far from home, so we had some common ground, there. It didn't last long, just a month or two. We never called ourselves "boyfriend/girlfriend", but it was still nice to get a feel for what it's like to be in a "mini-relationship".

The Internet has been good for giving me first dates, every now and then. Second dates don't happen often, but that's mostly because I tend to lose interest after (during?) the first date.

The trick is

Don't ask

Take

Aside from that, despite all of the "you have to make it happen" clichés, I firmly believe that love finds you. Think of love as a thing, a destiny even. Don't think of it as another person. That road... leads to madness.

I had the same problem for awhile, actually. They would essentially ask me out (somewhat unusual for the girl to do the asking, but not unheard of), and I would just be floored that someone was interested in me, so I would go along with it.


Actually, if you get up enough confidence, you'd be amazed at the things you can do. I asked my now-wife out on a dinner date, and had certain things in my life not happened previously, I doubt that I ever would have gotten up the nerve to do it. I'm glad I did, however.

I have NO idea. I have only ever been in one relationship myself, but she asked me out... and I took a good two weeks to give her an answer because I wasn't at all sure what I was supposed to bring to something like that. She had OCD, so she was persistent about asking. We went out for a few years, but I was never really sure what exactly that meant. We eventually broke up and now we're still good friends.

I'm still perplexed as to why she went out with me, and I never found out what I was supposed to do in a relationship like that, so... I don't really know nor care to look for another one. Maybe someone else will just stumble across me again. That's all I can really say, wait and something might just... happen

I've seen her too. I belong to Stormfront. Ha ha. A different kind of WP community.