09 Feb 2010, 2:21 pm
VolcanicEruptions
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09 Feb 2010, 3:14 pm
09 Feb 2010, 3:22 pm
League_Girl wrote:
superboyian wrote:
I'm writing this topic today because, I know someone who is an aspie who can't at all go places on her own, she can do it as she has road sense but her mum keeps her in because she worries about her...
For crying out loud she is 17 and should be able to do that stuff and she tells me that she wants to be independent but she never gets the chance to do that... At the school, the school offered if she learned how to do that but her mum disagrees and decides to not let her do it because she is too extremely worried that she would have a severe meltdown in the middle of the road.
Are you also an person who can't go places on your own?
- Signed superboyian
For crying out loud she is 17 and should be able to do that stuff and she tells me that she wants to be independent but she never gets the chance to do that... At the school, the school offered if she learned how to do that but her mum disagrees and decides to not let her do it because she is too extremely worried that she would have a severe meltdown in the middle of the road.
Are you also an person who can't go places on your own?
- Signed superboyian
Is there a reason why she can't go out alone?
I go out alone.
Apparently from her mum that she gets severe meltdowns and her temper is pretty bad when she is in a bad mood but she hasn't done any harm to me when she has been in a very bad mood and plus she has went through depression and she tried to attempt suicide a few times before when we was on our way to school and I remembered how terrified I would be just to see her do that and she self harmed.
She wanted to be seen as a normal individual and obviously feels left out.
I'm pretty sure that explains a few things.
09 Feb 2010, 3:29 pm
SpongeBobRocksMao
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09 Feb 2010, 5:30 pm
Not really. I'm 16, but have bad road skills and bad social skills. Not a very good combination 
, however, I really do want to go out sometime on my own, and hopefully it will happen soon. 
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10 Feb 2010, 6:45 am
10 Feb 2010, 10:07 am
superboyian wrote:
League_Girl wrote:
superboyian wrote:
I'm writing this topic today because, I know someone who is an aspie who can't at all go places on her own, she can do it as she has road sense but her mum keeps her in because she worries about her...
For crying out loud she is 17 and should be able to do that stuff and she tells me that she wants to be independent but she never gets the chance to do that... At the school, the school offered if she learned how to do that but her mum disagrees and decides to not let her do it because she is too extremely worried that she would have a severe meltdown in the middle of the road.
Are you also an person who can't go places on your own?
- Signed superboyian
For crying out loud she is 17 and should be able to do that stuff and she tells me that she wants to be independent but she never gets the chance to do that... At the school, the school offered if she learned how to do that but her mum disagrees and decides to not let her do it because she is too extremely worried that she would have a severe meltdown in the middle of the road.
Are you also an person who can't go places on your own?
- Signed superboyian
Is there a reason why she can't go out alone?
I go out alone.
Apparently from her mum that she gets severe meltdowns and her temper is pretty bad when she is in a bad mood but she hasn't done any harm to me when she has been in a very bad mood and plus she has went through depression and she tried to attempt suicide a few times before when we was on our way to school and I remembered how terrified I would be just to see her do that and she self harmed.
She wanted to be seen as a normal individual and obviously feels left out.
I'm pretty sure that explains a few things.
Okay. She sounds protective. I wasn't allowed to leave high school when I was 15 and 16 during lunch period. My mom said there was no reason for me too and the school lunch was cheaper and more healthier. I knew she was just doing that to protect me and keep me out of trouble from my peers. I didn't go anywhere on my own really until I was 17 and then I got in trouble with cops and mom told me to just come home right after school. I was only allowed to go to my own doctor appointments and that was it. But I went to places anyway after I get done with my doctor appointment or softball open gym and that be looking in thrift stores or second hand stores and I left school to go to the library when it was towards the end of the school year because there was no school work and all kids were doing was socializing and I had no reason to be there so I left. But I started getting more freedom when I got out of high school. My mom decided to let me be more independant because I was now an adult officially.
10 Feb 2010, 7:01 pm
10 Feb 2010, 7:03 pm
10 Feb 2010, 7:46 pm
pensieve wrote:
Errr...I blame the heat.
Lucky.... I have been suffering in the cold for the past winter season...
Makes me feel lazy to go out places on my own... I eventually end up doing so anyways but I'd prefer it to do it on my own time.
10 Feb 2010, 10:50 pm
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