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Frosteh
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19 Feb 2010, 6:09 am

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My mother used to get mad at me for keeping my door shut. Never did understand it.

Otherwise, I have rarely had the problem - most people find me dull enough and offputting. Still: there is one type of person that constantly wants to closer in to make contact, while I edge further away. And once in a blue moon someone OTHER than one of the Folk - the ones I can talk to - inexplicably gets fixated on me and tries to befriend. Very hard when someone NOT a potential friend presses in.

Rarely gets to the point of anger, but it has been known to happen.


I have the same problem with my mom, she always tells me to keep my door open. She also doesn't understand that when I say to leave me alone and I don't want to talk now, that I DON'T want to do it at the time and she makes things worse by not leaving.



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19 Feb 2010, 6:57 am

Reminds me of a girl at school who always used to follow me around and ask me questions I felt were too personal to me, things that were none of her business. She never left me alone, even when I politely told her I needed some time alone, she just kept getting in my flight zone and asking me why. In the end, I lost it and told her to f**k off. I felt bad for her because hardly anybody liked her, so I apologised for swearing at her and became more tolerant with her.


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19 Feb 2010, 8:33 am

No one seems to leave me alone.
Every day someone will talk to me or try to get me to do something, when I just want to be left alone.
Why do people not understand this?
They probably just write it off as me not wanting to do whatever they want me to do and that is also part of it, because I absolutely hate change.
I cling very much to sameness, with apathy for the rest of the world, until someone disturbs me.



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19 Feb 2010, 9:24 am

Nobody bothers me.

I can either defeat bullies intellectually...............or.......................they can leave in an ambulance.............

I always like to offer a choice............. :roll:


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19 Feb 2010, 10:03 am

My grandmother always calls me to see if I want to go to a movie or come over her house, both because she gets lonely and so am I. But sometimes I just can't take it - I need to be by myself. Plus it hurts being pittied by my family, you know? Because I have such a hard time making friends. My father can be the same way, only he is less understanding. He can't see why I can't "just relax" and spend time with his family. He doesn't get it - it's not relaxing. It's stressful to be away from home and putting on an act to make him happy. I also cannot stand his wife.


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19 Feb 2010, 10:28 am

Yeah. I have this one friend who calls so much. And when I tell her I need to hang up, she says "I hate you!" (jokingly, but shrill and stupid), and refuses to let me go. And if I say something, she'll interrupt me mid-sentence or pretend she didn't hear it. She just wants to talk at me. She's so f*****g selfish. And stupid, too. She's the stereotypical DUMB NT (as opposed to normal, fine one).



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19 Feb 2010, 4:38 pm

I hate that. It's like the sound of their voice is pounding against my ears, the lights hurt my eyes, I need to be alone.

What I hate most is when people act like you're just pretending and acting like this to be rude.



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19 Feb 2010, 5:05 pm

scream at him to get out of your face? that works most of the time.