malya2006 wrote:
Ok I'm really sorry for hijacking this post but I really need to know..I have a 6 year old AS son that is suuuuuuuper slow at everything. I love him to death but there are times in life where you have to hurry in order not to be late for things like appointments, school, swim classes, etc. How do I help him be ready on time? I feel so bad for rushing him because I know he hates it but if I let him have his way, he would do whatever he wants for hours and then decide two hours later he is ready to go. When he realizes he missed whatever he was scheduled for, he cries and feels bad because he missed it. How do I help him?
Have him get ready ahead of time before it's time to leave. Can he tell time? If so, tell him what time you guys are leaving at so he knows he needs to be ready before then.
So instead of waiting till it's time to go have him get ready like first thing in the morning so he wouldn't have to worry about it when it's time to leave. Then when it's time to leave, he can grab what he needs and head out the door with you.
Missing things is a good lesson for him. It will teach him to get ready before then and to stop what he is doing and get ready when you tell him to.