ASgirl wrote:
i have no sense of direction or spatial awareness whatsoever.
I can relate. If I go to a particular place on a regular basis, I learn the route by instinct and no longer have any trouble finding the place. However, I could never explain to anyone else how to get to the same destination. There are places I've been to several times, and I still can't find my way around, because I haven't been there often enough to know my way by instinct. People always assume that if you've been somewhere even once, you should be able to find it again, no problem. This is really not the case for me. It can be embarrassing at times. I also can't turn directions around. Fortunately for me, I live in an urban area, with plenty of signs and landmarks. That helps somewhat in finding destinations I'm not all that familiar with. If the route is relatively straightforward, and I'm able to get hold of comprehensive written directions to get somewhere, it's likely that I'll find the place without difficulty, unless, of course, I forget to write down one crucial detail of the directions, which is not unheard of for me. I do need clear
written directions. (ex. After you get off the train, walk to 35th Ave. If the address numbers are going up, you're going the right way. If the address numbers are going down, or you come to 33rd Avenue, you're going the wrong way, and you need to turn around. When you reach 35th Avenue. 123 45th Street should be right at the corner. These directions are completely invented, as I can't mentally access a real life example at the moment) Maps are virtually incomprehensible to me. I just can't make sense of them. Trouble is, I tend to forget to get clear written directions to get back from my destination. It seems like it should be a simple matter of reversing the route, but my brain seems to be incapable of such reversals.
The weird thing is, it's relatively easy for me to navigate the NYC Subway system, but once I get out of the station, and have to find my way from the station to my destination on foot, that's when I get lost.
When I think about it, it really wouldn't be feasible for me to drive, even if I ever did manage to pass my road test. It's difficult enough for me to find my way around on foot. Trying to figure out how to get where I'm going while operating a motor vehicle would most likely be virtually impossible, especially since I have a hard time multitasking. Luckily, I live in a place where one doesn't need to have a car to get around.
It's interesting how everyone here seems to be at one extreme or the other regarding direction.
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