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It doesn't make sense to be proud of something that's not an accomplishment.
Not in the same sense you'd be proud of an accomplishment. There are two definitions of "pride" involved here; the "I did something cool" kind doesn't apply here. But, like gay pride, black pride, mad pride, and many others, this kind is about liking who you are and telling the world that you want to be taken on your own terms, not as some sort of inferior version of the norm.
Michael_Stuart wrote:
I'm not really a fan of "X Pride Day" events. So you're gay/autistic/etc.? That's nice, but it doesn't need a special day. How can the world accept you if you keep singling yourselves out?
Because differences exist, and the only way to accept them is to recognize and treasure them, rather than minimizing them.
If we are going to be accepted, we have got to show people that autism is not scary and not nearly foreign enough to be impossible to understand. Being unashamed of who we are is part of that. NTs are essentially wired to connect with other people; and only the most prejudiced of them don't take the opportunity when they see an opening to that sort of connection.