Good post. And yes, I read every word, and it all made perfect sense.
My take?
Life means whatever I make it mean. Don't need or care what anyone else thinks. I don't force my interpretation on anyone, and don't allow anyone to force theirs on me. I'll take a bullet in the head before I'll ever betray who I am.
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I'm not likely to be around much longer. As before when I first signed up here years ago, I'm finding that after a long hiatus, and after only a few days back on here, I'm spending way too much time here again already. So I'm requesting my account be locked, banned or whatever. It's just time. Until then, well, I dunno...