SteamPowerDev wrote:
I've learned to control my dreams by force of will. As a child I use to have bad dreams and anxiety dreams. My parents only added to the stress of the dreams instead of helping. So after analyzing the bad and anxiety dreams I noticed a pattern, even as a child. The very basic pattern was that the actual images in the dreams were more or less nonsense and not at all scary outside of the dream. It was the feelings of fear and anxiety that made the dreams scary. So I sat down and through pure will power trained myself to change the dreams if they started to get scary or to anxious filled, I just realize that the images do not correspond with the feelings. Thus allowing me to gain control of the dream. I can either take the fear and anxiety away and let the dream go on, or I can completely change it. All while I'm asleep.
Same here, I think, only using a more direct thought process. Bad dreams and nightmares were too scary and unpleasant to have, so I just decided to 'step in' and change them. I was quite young, maybe 6, and it took a few tries, but after that, until my mid-twenties, I was often lucidly active in my dreams, sometimes every night. Now it doesn't happen as often. Changing bad dreams was usually easy and fun, although a few really vivid nasty ones still got through.
One that I could never get to or change was the horrible nightmare repeating, with a slightly surreal twist, an unpleasant experience that had actually happened. I had that one every month or so as a kid, re-experiencing how it had been in real-life.
Post-cog dreams? Pointless horribleness.
Reality dreams (semi-lucid probably) as an adult are very strange, especially when life sucks, and the dream-world is very much nicer.