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Surfman
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13 Sep 2010, 10:33 pm

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So what if I dont fit in socially. Big deal. So what. The upside far outweighs the downside for me. I am very very happy unto myself. My secret is I have accepted my difference and dont try to 'fit in' with NT conventions or norms.

From what I see here on WP, those aspies who have gotten over wanting to be NT, have accepted their AS and let go, seem to be much happier and content with their

'disability' ?? :wink: :arrow: :roll:


Give this man a f**king medal.




Thanks. Flying the positive flag is not always so easy. Some wish to remain lost in their despair? I suppose the present mind set seems easier than changing to be positive?



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13 Sep 2010, 11:01 pm

It's not easier...it just seems hopeless. I'm not even one of these people that needs tons of social contact...just a little, and I even muck that up.

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14 Sep 2010, 12:20 am

Yes I feel for you, I have been hopeless before.

For strength and courage to exist there needs hope.