I don't have poor spelling or poor grammar. In fact, I was one of the best children in the class at using grammar, before I was 10. In anything, a lot of NTs are bad at spelling and grammar.
When I was 6 years old, I could spell ''argue'', and that is good for a child of 6.
We can't keep blaming all our strengths and weaknesses on being on the spectrum. I'm very poor at maths, but I'm not blaming it on being on the spectrum. I am just a person who isn't good at maths, AS or no AS.
And I can't bear to read people's posts who have bad spelling and grammar, but people mis-using punctuation is far more irritating. The punctuation helps me to hear a tone of voice in my head as I read, and when reading somebody's post who doesn't use punctuation very well, I just can't understand what they're trying to say. And I also hate it when people don't close the bracket. Each time I see a bracket, I always have to look for the other bracket to actually read the words in the brackets. And I hate it when people use speech marks like this (example): Julie turned to her husband and said'', ohh that's a nice suit. And he said'', yes I brought it at Tesco. And then Julie went to the bedroom to get changed too.
How annoying and confusing that is to read! And I've never really seen poor punctuation like that on this Autism forum. I've seen more on the Yahoo forums. And also the spelling on the Yahoo forums too. They get muddled up with ''they're'', ''their'' and ''there'', or other words like that, which is also annoying.
My vocabulary may be bad, but at least I try to make my posts make as much sense as possible.
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