anyone wanna help annoy a former bully?

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18 Sep 2010, 1:34 pm

Service providers are by far the worst bullies - They are also the most difficuilt to avoid.
You can avoid/hide in your home from the rest of the vicious neurotypical preditors, but if you are disabled then you must eventually interact with the service providers who are abusive due to the inherant ignorance of the neurotypical brain, which is incapable of comprehending neuro-difference.

I have been contemplating a non profit charity organization "crow bars for the poor" which would distribute crowbars to low income and other disadvantaged groups, along with info about experiential learning - For every NT who gets their head bashed in that is one more who will be able to understand what it's like to have a brain that doesn't work right :lol: it will creat "understanding"

Also the more brain impared people we have the more services which will be made available - that's how the system works, the larger the recipient group the more likley services will be made available - so get a crow bar and empower someone to create undertstanding about neurological disability!


(by bashing the heads of service providers untill their brians are all broken and their skulls are mooshy! WhooHa Ha Ha Ha! )



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18 Sep 2010, 8:44 pm

One of my favorite sayings is an old Chinese Proverb: If you sit by the river long enough, you will eventually see the body of your enemy float by. :D



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18 Sep 2010, 9:01 pm

I have thought about getting back at people who have harassed me. I know how to create a computer formatting virus that's hard to trace back to my computer, but I've never done it. I read about how to do it on the internet when I was considering that I should format their computer to get back at them, but then I changed my mind because revenge will only make me feel worse and there is no point in getting back at someone who harassed me years ago. Try to forget about them and leave them in the past. Don't do something you'll regret.



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18 Sep 2010, 9:25 pm

I say, just pay attention to the South Hadley trials(google "Phoebe Prince" if you don't know what I'm talking about). Six kids are being tried essentially for bullying the new girl to death(she hung herself in January). A lot of people in the U.S.(and Ireland, where the girl came from) are out to see these kids' blood. My guess is that seeing these kids go down in the courts is like seeing it happen to THEIR own tormentors of their past and present.
I'm almost certain that if these kids are acquitted, someone's gonna come after one of them with a gun, especially since the papers keep publishing their addresses. People have already made death threats against them.
Just keep up with the news, and when these kids' lives are ruined, it'll be like our own bullies suffered the same fate.
I can't help but keep up with it. She died only 10 miles from where I live, and I've been to the school for community theater. Any news about these punks is immediately front-page news.



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18 Sep 2010, 9:49 pm

I'm not suggesting you do this, however, I have heard that some people do.......

Set up two email accounts.

Have A forward to B and B forward to A, with CC's to the victims email addy.

It'll send a lot of emails.

But I wouldn't do this and I recommend you don't do it too. It's illegal.

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19 Sep 2010, 5:37 am

This sounds like an episode of Dr. Phil with a woman who was bullied back in middle and high school.
She had flashbacks about it too. But, the bully saw her on Dr. Phil years later and wrote an apology and wanted to be friends. See how people change?
I think your bully would have changed by now, so you shouldn't do it.



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19 Sep 2010, 6:36 am

Bullying your former bully nails bullying into your life. What you do becomes what you are. Don't become a bully. Don't let his bullying make you a bully too. That's living in the past. Discover what could have prevented his bullying and make it real in your life now, so that you are safe now. I don't think it's a matter of letting go as much as it is accepting your past, with adjustments to your present life so you can move on.



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19 Sep 2010, 6:41 am

Claradoon wrote:
Bullying your former bully nails bullying into your life. What you do becomes what you are. Don't become a bully. Don't let his bullying make you a bully too. That's living in the past. Discover what could have prevented his bullying and make it real in your life now, so that you are safe now. I don't think it's a matter of letting go as much as it is accepting your past, with adjustments to your present life so you can move on.


Very true and well said,Claradoon.



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19 Sep 2010, 7:06 am

Don't do it.

You need to realise that nothing in the real world turns out like your fantasies. I have fantasies of handing my bullies arses to them, but it would never actually work.

This person was mean enough to ruin you life in the past. What makes you think they've weakened over the years? They'll probably do it again.



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19 Sep 2010, 8:02 am

Ask her questions like 'So, why did you make it your business to make me miserable in high school?' or 'Why do you like tormenting Asperger people?' and so forth, to make her look a huge dick in front of her social circle.


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19 Sep 2010, 8:04 am

Synecdoche wrote:
Yeah, just forget about it. It's too long ago.

Although I might not be one to speak since one of my roommates last year was an egotistical jerk who bullied others. Even after talking to him one-on-one numerous times to try to get him to stop, he wouldn't.

So for revenge, I used his toothbrush to clean the toilet, poured toilet water in his mouthwash, spat into his shampoo every morning, poured lab bacteria in his food, poured water into his $600 LCD TV, super glued his GameCube controllers shut, stole money from his secret hiding spots (he would hide them in his shoes lol), keyed his car, and shoved him against the wall while threatening to mess him up.

Now, he's scared of me and literally runs away anytime he sees me. I guess I'm not a very nice guy either but this guy really was a cocky douchebag with Napoleon Complex (his name was also David, therefore, since everyone was taller than him, he felt the need to take on this entire world of Goliaths). I guess this makes him sound more pathetic then cruel. In the end, though, he was the biggest coward because he refused to acknowledge himself even after I tried telling him to stop for his own good.

My actions don't make me any better but at least I gave him some justice for all the cruel injustice he caused for other people.


Lol you are more humane than me.

I've always liked the idea of getting hold of some of the people who tormented me, and stringing them up in public with baseball bats shoved up their backsides.


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28 Oct 2010, 9:19 am

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Bad idea. Remember the mother who cyber harassed one of her daughter's friends , who then killed herself?

That woman was indicted for murder.


I'm sure the girl wasn't harassing the mother to begin with. Eye for an eye, tooth for a tooth, I say.