Hermier wrote:
So I was one of those little freaks that talked in sentences long before I could walk. My mother swears that I taught myself to read (apparently, since no one else could have) at the age of two.... she saw that I was reading a book to the baby brother & figured I had memorized it, but just to be sure, she showed me a newspaper and I read the headline to her.
Basically I have no idea how one goes about learning to read. To me it feels like I have always just been able to.
However I have a child who struggles with reading and is, in fact, testing below grade level. Yet he's clearly brilliant --- I do know I'm not supposed to say that about my own child, but whatever, he is. I don't know of any reason for him to fall behind his peers but I would really like to help him. At this point, reading is work to him, and although we read together (take turns on pages or paragraphs as we read aloud) he gets frustrated easily.
Anyone have any ideas of how I could help him out? I'm strongly considering canceling the cable TV and filling the void with books, but I hesitate to do that as we head into winter, with me still feeling sick much of the time, if you get my meaning. He's super stubborn... way more stubborn than I could ever be. So it's not about "just" making him do this or that, as my mother tells me. When she was raising us, she had a power that I don't have: that of being willing to use physical violence on her children to gain obedience, but I am not willing, so. Something not involving the use of force or meanness.
Thanks...
Check his eyesight first, my mother struggled with reading until she was 14 because she had a very bad eyesight and no one saw it.
Then, check of dyslexia, it's not unusual to have learning disorder in "autistic families" (and it can happen in any family, especially since many people have not been diagnosed because in their time no one diagnosed that).
Dyslexia does not mean he is not bright of course, I know many dyslexic people who are very intelligent.
(it could also be the method used which is not adapted to your child).
And to answer to your question.
I am nowhere near a genius or a freak, I've learnt to read at 6 (5-6 because I was born in December) with the other kids at school and with the help of my mother. I have difficulties with reading and can be a slow reader (though I was a fast reader on wesneday yay XD), I have dyspraxia and it seems that it is not unusual to have characteristics of dyslexia and dyscalculia when you have it (my doctor says it's just a consequence of my dyspraxia).
I love to read, I enjoy reading complicated books and can understand them but I sometimes mix the letters and I read badly when I have to read aloud (it's better in my head).
I know that I had no speech delay but was relatively normal, it's just that when I started to talk I never stopped and had a great vocabulary, I walked at 9 months so that's early but normal (except when you think about my dyspraxia, it's strange), the only strange thing I did was teaching myself the Greek alphabet and the Braille System when I was 7.
I know many people who have taught themselves how to read pretty early and others who were taught by their parents but I'm not one of them. It used to make me feel stupid but really, intelligence hasn othing to do with your ability to read.