My daughter has what I believe to be Aspergers. It comes from my husband's side of the family. He suffers and so does his father, three of his four brothers, our daughter, 2 of my nephews and one niece. All undiagnosed ~ sad but true. All professional people, doctors, lawyers and highly intelligent. I know that for years we've known that something was "not normal" but no one seemed to discuss it. I finally started doing some research on my own and discovered Aspergers. I have one son that is NT. Highly energetic, happy and talkative~a mirror image of me as a child. Our daughter however I believe suffers from Aspergers. Some of things she has trouble with are terrible vision, poor depth perception, a small congenital lesion in the parietal lobe of her brain which causes seizures. The seizures are very well controlled with a small dose of anti-seizure meds ~ she only has one or two a year. They are simple partial focal seizures that she has had since birth which are a very mild form . . no loss of awareness just involuntary tick on the left side of her body that lasts a few minutes. Also, and quite possibly the most unique thing is blanket flipping. I believe from everything that I have read over the years that this is stimming? She has done this since she was old enough to pick up the blanket. She flips and flaps it in front of her face until she falls asleep. My husband has the same habit. We would watch her do it when she was little and he would say to me "How can you be born with the need to do that?" Well, now I understand why. She is highly intelligent. Taught her self the alphabet at the age of two. Straight A student ~ super organized and methodical and precise (not me at all). Loves art, drawing and writing stories. She is very empathetic and loves animals. She gets along very well with her NT brother and I thank God every day for him. He has helped her through a lot. Their friendship is absolutely essential for her. Unfortunately she has few friends. . . one of the drawbacks of this condition. But to the average person I don't believe they would ever suspect that she was anything other than shy. It is such a unique condition. I try very hard to stress with my husband that I don't look at it as a disability or even a disorder. I see it as a different way of approaching life. It can be a challenge for sure. But I think understanding the differences is the key to being able to live with it. If Aspgergers sufferers understand HOW they are different I think it can make a world of difference in how they adjust. My father in law spent his whole life suffereing with an extreme case of social fear and inadequacy. I think if he had known why it wouldn't have been such a stuggle for him. Of course these guys are all on the "mild" side of the spectrum and I cerainly understand that for others it may be much more severe. I don't speak to everyone with this condition but only for my family as I see them.