If you could get rid of 1 AS symptom, which one would it be?

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Which one symptom would you cure if you could?
Obsessiveness 1%  1%  [ 1 ]
Anxieties 27%  27%  [ 23 ]
Sensory overload (feel free to write which one) 15%  15%  [ 13 ]
Social difficulties 33%  33%  [ 28 ]
Literal and/or logic thinking 1%  1%  [ 1 ]
Emotional issues 12%  12%  [ 10 ]
Other (I've probably missed one out, feel free to write about it) 10%  10%  [ 8 ]
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18 Dec 2010, 11:04 pm

I'm not entirely sure what Executive and Sensory overload are and i don't think i have the latter. I clicked anxiety but i kind of wished i clicked other. My biggest problem is that i'm too nice - does that go under any of the options?



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18 Dec 2010, 11:08 pm

bucephalus wrote:
I'm not entirely sure what Executive and Sensory overload are and i don't think i have the latter. I clicked anxiety but i kind of wished i clicked other. My biggest problem is that i'm too nice - does that go under any of the options?


Being too nice would come under the banner of social difficulty. I guess that you don't know when to say no, and you aren't good with defining barriers? I think it's very easy for us to make the mistake of being too nice, rather than risk making a faux pas about how we express our needs.


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18 Dec 2010, 11:11 pm

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I selected anxiety, but then I noticed someone said executive dysfunction. I have to say the latter. If I did not have ED, I would probably be alot more functional...as it is now, I am crippled by it.
But my Executive Dysfunction is very crippling cause I usually cant get much of anything done...if I didnt have it, I might be able to finish college alot easier and be able to move my life forward, but mostly I just chase my tail in cicles where other people can just plan to do something and just do it and get it done. Sometimes it makes me feel like such a failure in life.


SAME.
There is so much I want to do, but I never manage to do it. Why is it so difficult to do things that I really, really want to do?
That's definitely what I'd get rid of. I can live with the rest. And I've been less anxious lately anyway.



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18 Dec 2010, 11:23 pm

Moog wrote:
bucephalus wrote:
I'm not entirely sure what Executive and Sensory overload are and i don't think i have the latter. I clicked anxiety but i kind of wished i clicked other. My biggest problem is that i'm too nice - does that go under any of the options?


Being too nice would come under the banner of social difficulty. I guess that you don't know when to say no, and you aren't good with defining barriers? I think it's very easy for us to make the mistake of being too nice, rather than risk making a faux pas about how we express our needs.


i really don't know how to say 'no'. I would say i virtually have a phobia of upsetting people. Everyone says i'm too nice but it's the only way i know. then i get angry with myself for being too soft - it stops me from doing my job properly



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18 Dec 2010, 11:26 pm

i wouldn't remove one of those traits; i would remove the necessity of earning income. (in a magical way. not by disposing of everything i own and opting to live on the street, for example)

that would help me in several areas.


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18 Dec 2010, 11:33 pm

katzefrau wrote:
i wouldn't remove one of those traits; i would remove the necessity of earning income. (in a magical way. not by disposing of everything i own and opting to live on the street, for example)

that would help me in several areas.


to be fair that would help anyone in several areas. I know what u are saying tho. I would write loads of albums and short films if i didn't have to work, wheras the typical NT might get bored



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19 Dec 2010, 1:08 am

I chose social difficulties, but I mean, more specifically, poor theory of mind. I think perhaps I would be better able to feel some sense of connection with my fellow humans if I could better understand and predict their thinking, and it would help to protect me to be able to judge the motives and character of others. I live with a permanent sense of people not being "safe," which I suspect may largely be theory of mind-related, and I would like not to be afraid anymore.

Sensory issues would be a close second because, though social issues interfere more with my life, I believe I'm more able to overcome them. I may learn to cope with sensory problems better, but I'm pretty sure they will always be there.


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19 Dec 2010, 6:15 am

None. I'm happy with who I am, flaws and all.



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19 Dec 2010, 7:29 am

It would be nice to not have the executive dysfunction. I can live with being socially inept (at least to the degree that I am). I can't imagine why anyone would not want to be logical or if being logical is necessarily a sign of autism (everyone can be irrational and many autistics can be irrational, including myself). It would be great to be able to manage emotional issues better and improving executive function might contribute to being more emotionally intelligent. Anxiety and anger are the main emotional problems that I have. While I don't get panic attacks as frequently as I used to (they used to be very frequent) but I still have this sense of panic and dread "bubbling underneath" which can be distracting and gets in the way of my tasks. However, I accept that my problems can be overcome with hard work and I accept that many of my deficits could have contributed to some of my better qualities. I process information differently than my peers and adding my thoughts into the collective pool of ideas helps the group to function better. It would be nice if I had no problems and if life came easily to me, but that's not how life works, unfortunately.



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19 Dec 2010, 7:57 am

I think it's interesting that no one's picked literal/logical thinking. I think overcoming that was a major watershed moment for me :lol:


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19 Dec 2010, 12:04 pm

Anxiety for sure because curing the anxiety helps with the social difficulties.



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19 Dec 2010, 1:03 pm

Social difficulties. It's not smooth sailing at all when you can't understand facial expressions, body language, and other social necessities as well as everyone else.



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19 Dec 2010, 1:15 pm

Social difficulties are probably the hardest thing for me to deal with. Although sensory issues in regard to sound an anxieties give me some trouble, it is the growing isolation I feel that bothers me the most. It seems if I could get some relief from that, the other problems wouldn't be that much of a burden.


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19 Dec 2010, 1:53 pm

I'd keep all of my AS if i could just jettison my co-morbid condition--executive dysfunction. I wouldn't even mind keeping my PTSD if I could get rid of that.

I have learned to cope very well and even enjoy my AS traits--I mean, it's actually pretty cool to accept you as yourself, especially when you're very differentin very fascinating ways. Yeah, I don't have many friends, but do you realize how many NTs are lonely and friendless too? And I'll take my sensory issues and Aspie thinking/communication style over, say, having diabetes or cancer.

But my executive function is an ongoing source of frustration and set-backs.



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19 Dec 2010, 2:39 pm

Anxieties. I have very few and mild sensory issues and I can usually avoid. My social problems aren't that bad, I am not sure what emotional issues means. I am not a literal or logical thinker. I like the obsessions, if that's obsessiveness means. I hate the anxieties a lot though. So, anxieties.



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19 Dec 2010, 2:57 pm

either the executive dysfunction or the sensory issues