why so few female aspies detected?

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Wow, some of you really need to take advanced biology and maybe child psychology.

As a female with AS, I think two of the main reasons that I was not diagnosed as a child are:

1) It is more socially acceptable for young girls to be shy

2) I believe that girls in general are better able to mimic the speech patterns and mannerisms of women around them. I rarely spoke, but when I did I managed to avoid the stereotypical monotone Aspie voice, for the most part.

I was often too uncomfortable in public to really act like myself and therefore my more obvious symptoms were not always on display for people to notice.

I think that attempts to find the genetic source of autism symptoms will prove to be extremely difficult and complicated by issues such as multiple genes with incomplete dominance and/or variable expressivity, as well as environmental influences. I am 100% sure in my mind that I inherited something from my father's mother that is causing my mental problems, because we shared many symptoms. However, my father shows very mild spectrum traits and my mother is NT, so it doesn't really make sense why I am in some ways even more severely affected than my grandmother was. There must be multiple factors involved.

1)I think that it has a lot to do with social development being stressed in girls more than in boys in our culture/society. Girls are taught to be more co-operative whereas boys are taught to be more cooperative. Therefore girls may learn more compensatory mechanisms, may learn them faster, and may mask their social difficulties better. It may be that it is far less acceptable for a girl that for a boy to be socially inept.( Of course a lot more is expected from girls than from boys in social situations and therefore as the girls get older their social difficulties may cause them quite a lot of distress and difficulty)

2)Girls may be less likely to fit the stereotype of AS (although some do) than boys and may manifest their symptoms differently. For example girls are more likely to have all consuming people obsessions which may be hard to spot and classify as s obsessive interests. .....an all consuming interest in say train spotting or computers might be more apparent and alarming to parents.

3)Boys with AS, just like boys in general, tend to display more "aggressive" and "oppositional" behaviour. With regard to AS this may be "aggressive" behaviour in response to unexpected change, sensory overload etc. On average girls tend to be more passive and compliant than boys and therefore many neurological/psychological conditions are over-looked in girls (e.g. ADHD). This is not to say that girls don't have meltdowns when they experience sensory/emotional overload. Also some girls do show disruptive behaviour (I am an AS girl...(I don't know why I kept saying "they" when referring to AS girls )..and I used to be class policeman and yell at kids to line up properly etc, and at one point I reacted by hitting/pinching some kids who were bullying). Nonetheless destructive behaviour is less common in girls and destructive behaviour get attention!!

Ohhh sorry for all the typos and grammar mistakes. I meant to say boys are taught to be more competitive!

Yep. Males have the shorter chromosome and may be more susceptible to what's on the right lower leg of the X.
That could mean males are vulnerable to whatever is occurring on certain parts of the X while females have a greater chance of the lower right leg of their second X mitigating the first.

Becasuse girls are usualy "mothered" by other girls. I know I was until grade three. So it appears they can make friends. Girls are often more quiet and shy and don't usualy cause as much of a scene as boys. I was diagnosed because I was agressive and hyper but then I probably really have bipolar as well. Bipolar wasn't even a diagnosis for adults when I was a kid but I resimbled these little bipolar kids than I do most kids with AS.

In my case, there were several different reasons. One, I was very well-behaved at both home and school, and I was successful academically. That was enough to convince my parents and teachers that I couldn't possibly have a disorder. Two, I was explicity taught etiquette and politeness, so I was able to display superficially good social skills. At some point I started observing and imitating other kids. Three, for the most part I did have friends. Kids from my neighborhood, kids who felt sorry for me, kids who wanted more friends and considered me a safe choice...I was often alone, but it was by choice. Four, I'd long been labeled intellectually gifted, which was apparently a good enough explanation for my social awkwardness, weird interests, and clumsiness. And five, my mom's family is full of Aspies and she may be one herself, so she didn't think my behavior was so unusual.