How can I get to the route of this problem?

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Jamesy, you've said a lot of things that weren't said in your first post about the dyslexic guy. From your first post I thought that he just totally blanked you. From your next posts regarding this guy it seems that he is a friend, it seems he's just going through a bad patch and doesn't know how to deal with it. Patience will help with this guy.

About your best friend, he may have withdrawn a bit over time in reaction to various things which may not even relate to you. You've said he has a girlfriend, relationships require time and effort, and time spent alone together. All this would lead to him having less time to think about his platonic friends. Also, you probably seem fine from his perspective with things as they are.

Perhaps to talk to the best friend and say about how you're feeling about having to call or text him a lot more than he texts you. Using I statements can help a person realise you're talking about you and not them. example: I feel... when this happens.../ I like it when you call me/ I'm worried about my friendship with our group. Using I statements help the other person see what you're saying without feeling blamed for the feeling/issue, thus help with clarity when communicating.

I don't know becuase my dyslexic friend last friday was blanking me out a bit and being friendly to my other 2 mates. then again though they were talking about subject to do with cars which i have very little knowledge on and when i trying to put my input into the conversation maybe from my dyslexic friends perspective i was talking rubbish?