A friend died and I attended the funeral. On arriving at his sister's house (where everyone gathered before the service) she opened the door - dressed in black, looking very pale, and with eyes red through crying.
Me, running my "cheerful greeting" script: "Hi - hello, really nice to see you!".
I gushed, she caved, and I felt awful.
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