Verdandi wrote:
Moog once described playing some kind of sport with some people with AS, and he said he was the only one who was really cheering/participating beyond simply playing or watching.
I may be misremembering.
Wow, well remembered!
I went to a bit of a mini meet with people with AS and/or autism, various manifestations... and there were definitely some severe ADHD behaviours on display as well. It was very educational.
It was a game of snooker/pool. The social reciprocity that was lacking during the game was remarkable... There was conversation, definitely, but the little verbal and non verbal ways that NTs keep a social connection going were notably absent. I was watching and passed a comment about a well played shot or whatever... how NT of me.
I wonder if they thought I was being manipulative.
I find the way aspies broker a conversation quite refreshing, because I don't really like small talk, even if I do tend to remember to attempt it.
I have noticed in recent years that I can learn to socialise reasonably well. I tend to find socialising somewhat anxiety provoking (I can manage that to an extent now with meditation techniques) and energy draining, which can add up to making it hard to maintain interest levels, and social niceties like remembering to acknowledge the existence of others gradually go out the window.
I am not diagnosed with either AS or ADHD (currently being assessed for the latter)
An extensive discussion about the differences might be rather interesting.
It wouldn't surprise me if AS/ADHD were on the same 'spectrum' as it were, or loosely associated through being different clusters of neurological development effects that often overlap.
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