2ukenkerl wrote:
How could ANYONE believe that their parents were SO perfect and everything surrounding the 9 months prior to their birth, and the tiem when they are born is SO perfect that they MUST have been NORMAL!?
News for you. It was probably SO imperfect that, had growth and immunity not compensated, your mother would likely have died before you were born. That's OK, you probably would have been dead anyway.
NOPE, NOTHING is perfect. It is a miracle that the average person is as healthy as they are.
If all or most people are exposed to such circumstances, they are by definition normal. Normal MEANS common or expected. MOST people are "normal" for a given value of normal in most situations. There are even situations in which we're normal. Want to know some normal things? I have pimples and that's normal because I'm a teenager. I'm overweight and that's normal because I'm American and something like 2/3 of Americans are. When I have my period the pain usually makes me moan and writhe and pray frantically, and that's normal for women. Sometimes I catch a cold, which is normal for humans.
Of course it's a matter of normal for a particular group. Sensory issues like I experience aren't normal (though they're not all that rare, either), but for autistics they're normal. Lead poisoning is more common in some places than in others. It's probably par for the course in some places but uncommon in others.
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