ediself wrote:
My voice is apparently too flat, people stop listening to me pretty quick. When I was a kid, I somehow infered from the reactions I got that most people had a very short attention span, and that I had to speak quicker, so I spoke extremely fast in order to be done with my sentence before the person stopped listening. When I think about it, I'm really sad for 7 year old me ...
I kept the habit, I still speak too fast, but that's because people still appear to have very short attention spans...
Same with me. I'm constantly being told to slow my speaking down. I just can't because I can only be so far behind my thoughts with my words before I lose that connection completely and stop being able to use words altogether.