wow, I'm not alone. I also can't stand getting my hair cut. I went to this one place where they actually massage your head before they wash your hair- that was the worst, but how do you tell them politely that you don't want the stupid head massage?
And I also have trouble conveying to them what I really want. I have an exact idea, but I can't get it across to them. I always bring pictures with me.
last year I got the worst haircut of my life. I cried when I got home, and I wore a ponytail, even to bed, for about 6 months. I didn't even want my husband to see how ugly it was. Then I cut it myself and I liked it more. I also cut my husband's hair, and people compliment him on it all the time.
I came to the conclusion long ago that all hairdressers are stupid, dippy people with poor listening skills, but lucky for me, I just found a good one! (I went through the yellow pages and tried to find the most expensive hairdresser in a 20 mile range, I figured you get what you pay for) For $55 I actually got a decent haircut!