Chronos wrote:
I think the people in your group are still likely on the higher functioning end of the spectrum.
The appropriate question would be, would low functioning autistic people socialize with me? And the answer is, probably not as they're not much for socializing with anyone.
Depends on the person, actually. Being severely disabled doesn't necessarily mean being extremely introverted. So you might meet somebody who can't use language at all but still wants to interact with people, or someone who's highly verbal and talks like a book but is so introverted that they don't ever initiate contact.
It's really a matter of stereotypes. People like Autism Speaks are perpetuating the idea that autism means you're a hopeless case, and telling the world that autism is always this huge stereotypical thing...
Here's the actual truth:
Some autistic people are non-verbal. Most are not.
Non-verbal people do not necessarily need more help than those who can speak.
The autism stereotype doesn't reflect reality. It's more of a conglomeration of the most dramatic possible traits, tagged with an "always" and exaggerated out of proportion.
"Functioning levels"--the tags that doctors put on us--don't really have much to do with how we think and learn. Nor do they have much to do with who we hit it off with and like to spend time with.
'Kay, so maybe if you like talking about astrophysics, you might not really like spending time with the guy who's still learning his letters. But don't make too many assumptions. For example, I used to work with a guy who's developmentally delayed and likes astronomy just like I do.
I guess it all comes down to: Don't make assumptions based on what category someone's been shoved into. Get to know them for yourself before you decide. Knowing somebody's been labeled "LFA" tells you nothing other than that somebody, at some point, labeled them that way.