What Annoys You The Most About NTs?

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Their usually fake attitude towards everyone...so much so that I'm not sure if I'm seeing the real person when I meet them or if I'm only seeing their pretense. I also hate their habit of making false friendships that fall apart and never last whenever a hard time might arise. A real friend wouldn't abandon you or make fun of you...a real friend is loyal and long-suffering.

It'd be amazing if they understood that there are some things we cannot do - just because there's no physical disability such as deafness doesn't mean that there's 'nothing stopping me' from being able to use a telephone, or just because they can integrate themselves into groups doesn't mean there's 'nothing stopping me' from doing the same, etc. I don't think there is any way for them to understand why certain things can cause some of us problems, but they could at least acknowledge that there are problems that some of us face, and saying otherwise doesn't change that fact.

When they say either "you don't have autism" or "I am really jealous of your the way your uniqueness".

NTs to me are extremely one-sided. Regardless of their political and moral views, they insist they're right about everything 100% and refuse to listen to take other people's opinions to though (or debate them maturely) even when they claim to be open-minded. I know too many people like this. Open-mindedness is just a buzz term to NTs but nobody ever really is. They never ever deny ANY wrongdoing on their part and refuse to think as such yet they don't mind calling out others on their flaws.

i think it would be easier for me to name what i like about them, then what i don't. i could write a book about things i hate.

so they keep the earth's human population from dieing off.

and that's it.

i'm an ass i know... i'm aware...

What annoys me the most about NTs:

- that they don't say what they mean, but asssume things are implicit

- that when I don't get them it's because I lack ToM; when they don't get me, it's because I'm weird/ disabled/ srange. Uhm, no it's because their ToM can't fathom me any more than mine can them - that is very much a two-way street!

- phoniness. I don't think you should be mean to anyone just because you don't like them, but acting like they are friends of yours is just plain fake.

Ohh I love this thread!

What annoys me is the way they conform. They're so afraid to be different. They hate embarrassment. They can't really do what they want because they live by the norm. I feel like saying, ''look, we're all going to be dead soon - live how you want to live!'' But no, they won't have it.

My mum, for example, had an operation on her lower thighs, and she doesn't want to go swimming any more, because she doesn't want to show all the scars. So I suggested her to wear one of those longer swimsuits - the ones what don't come down like knickers but the ones what come down like shorts, so it can cover her scars. And she was all like, ''no way - people will laugh at me!'' And so I sighed and said, ''oh, I see. It's against the stupid rules of fashion. OK - go ahead and don't get your exercise then.''

With NTs, fashion comes before health. That's what annoys me.

I like this^^^

It must be remembered also that these distorting conditions,
found in all of you, are the medium whereby you are tuned in on
the world glamour and illusion. The emphasis has been laid in
esoteric teaching on the training and liberation of the individual
aspirant. This is, of course, necessary, for the mass is made up
of the individuals, and in the steady release from the control of
these inner delusions will come the eventual clarification of
humanity. Therefore each of you in this group must of necessity
work separately and apart with himself, and learn to induce
those conditions of clarity and truth which will overcome the
ancient rhythms and deep seated habits and thus steadily purify
the aura. But this has now to be done as a group, and this group
constitutes one of the first of the exoteric groups with which it is
intended to work in the new age. Through the activity of such
groups, the world glamour will be dissipated, [28] but first of all
the aspirant must learn to deal with individual and group
glamour. It is necessary to remember the following three things.
I am going to be brief and technical in teaching this group, for
my time is short and you have an adequate technical knowledge
with which to understand that whereof I speak.
First, the united auras of the group members ever determine the
group condition, the group activity, usefulness, problem and
glamour. Hence emerges individual group responsibility and
individual usefulness. Each of you either hinders or aids the
group, according to his auric condition, which is either in a state
of glamour or illusion or is kept relatively free from these
conditions.
Second, that the first job that each of you has to do is to
determine his own peculiar problem. In giving you your
individual instructions, I will take up with you in this instruction
where the particular tendency in this direction of each of you
lies, and whether it is glamour, illusion or maya to which you
habitually succumb. I will deal with directness, for I have tested
your sincerity and believe in your willingness to be told the truth.
Once you have each determined the specific nature of your
peculiar problem, you can then work with deliberation towards
its solution - with deliberation, brother of old, and with no speed,
but with due care and caution and with right understanding.

The way they presume they're "normal" and if you don't act just like them, then you are somehow broken and in need of repaid. They seem to be unable to tolerate the idea that there are people different than them. Same way with day people. They assume that since they get up early, that doing so must be the proper way and if you don't than you must have some sort of problem.

well i made someone laugh.

I wish women in general were more tolerant of "weirdness". But, hey, prostitutes generally are so why should I care?

In my past, however, I've had no problems attracting pretty NT women. Of course, they also happened to be geeks, just the way I like 'em (Maybe they were actually half NT/AS?).

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Amen. The illogicality is also a big one (Assuming it's not in jest). Generally, they prize their own perceived "social power" and conformance (Either the one conforming or enforcing others to conform to them, depending on said social power) more than rationality.

With NTs, fashion/style comes before everything. Except when it's impossible.

When they assume their words make perfect sense just because they know what they're saying....and then decide that the issue must not be one of literal incomprehension, but of the other person being difficult or "hav[ing] a problem with" the unknown message hidden in the incomprehensible words.

Lack of logicality. Lack of any interest in anything beyond their tiny little bubble of socialization.