immortalwarrior wrote:
so how did you and your husbands meet? my question refers to the 2 ladies that posted. Ive found out rather difficult being a person with AS and disability to find someone to date. Girls that i meet either say im weird or that im not good looking enough. So ive always wondered how do AS and people with autisim manage to get married. People to piss me off said i should marry a girl who has down syndrome or is mentally ret*d in wheel cheer since thats what people considar me is ret*d :'(
I'm a female, married, and posted in this thread, but I don't know if I'm one of the two females you were asking....
I think finding out how aspie men met their significant others will probably help you more. Generally speaking, it's easier for a woman to find someone to date than it is for a man.
I personally always had too many people interested in dating me, but I think it's got everything to do with being female in a mostly male industry. I've worked in the software and video game industry since I was 19 (I'm 27 now), and there aren't all that many women who "know computers," especially back in the late 1990s. If you're one of 3 female computer geeks in a company with 200 male computer geeks, then you become sort of a hot commodity, just by default.
That's how I met my husband. We were both working at a company that did video game testing. For our "second date" I sat him down on my living room floor and showed him how to crimp CAT5 cables. Only in retrospect do I see how funny that is.