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Jamesy
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06 Aug 2011, 3:46 pm

Well call this unreasonable off me but i resent my parents for not helping me out more with my brother. they know he makes me life a lt harder than it needs too be and them not moving him out just makes me very fustrated with them.

the problem is as well that my own behaviour at home can be very bad because i had mood swings around my parents sometimes and i can be very crabby LOL...... if you could take a wild wild guess why don't you think my parents want too move my brother into a flat?

my brother knows that i give my parents a hard time becuase of my behaviour and for that reason my brother is staying put and not moving out.

i guess i am a burden on my parents and my brother and really they are on my brothers side.



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06 Aug 2011, 3:53 pm

Jamesy, it's not your fault.
Why not just ask your parents if they'll let you move into the flat?


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06 Aug 2011, 4:06 pm

i did ask my mum yesterday about moving out and she said "well you need a job first".

Cornflake if you could take wild guess why do my parents not want too move my brother out first???



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06 Aug 2011, 4:13 pm

Is he physically stronger then you ?, if not you should give him plenty of warnings before you crush his skull.
I don't mean do any serious long term damage but you have to put a stop to this imo its what he deserves.
If it starts a war between both of you then that is what it is, it is not your fault.



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06 Aug 2011, 4:14 pm

I meant ask to move in and they cut you some slack to give you time to sort things out.
Are you having no luck at all with any job?


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06 Aug 2011, 4:27 pm

Cornflake my brother has a girlfriend who lives in Winchester (he travels down a fair few miles too see her regurley on weekends or even weekdays.

maybe he might end up living with her eventually? in fact last week she came to stay at our house for 1 night.