I avoided this thread since it was opened because I thought you were going to ask for money. haha
I hate this too. I might not look poor, but I am. I work a casual job, am a fulltime student on a full student loan, and am completely dependent on my parents. The homeless guy who walks back and forth between all the cars during the red lights has more pocket change than I do! When I say I don't have a dollar, I mean it...and I hate getting the guilt trip at every single cash register I go to. When I do happen to have a dollar, I like to keep it because that is rare for me. I too would rather give when I am able to something I choose to donate. If they want to collect money for a certain cause, all they have to do is put something like that big plastic doggy bank by the door, and sure enough, they will get money.
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