Are we aspies the biggest buzzkills to NTs

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19 Sep 2011, 11:49 am

I would never tell anyone to turn their music down because I hate it when people tell me that. However, I love the invention of ipods with earbuds. It helps things out.

I might appear to be a buzzkill at times but everyone is when in a bad mood. Is anyone perpetually cheerful?



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19 Sep 2011, 12:19 pm

ooOoOoOAnaOoOoOoo wrote:
I would never tell anyone to turn their music down because I hate it when people tell me that.


Neither do I, but I make exceptions if it's before 6 A.M. or if it's my sister. :lol:



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19 Sep 2011, 12:20 pm

swbluto wrote:
ooOoOoOAnaOoOoOoo wrote:
I would never tell anyone to turn their music down because I hate it when people tell me that.


Neither do I, but I make exceptions if it's before 6 A.M. or if it's my sister. :lol:

Well, if it's family members, that changes everything ;)



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19 Sep 2011, 10:37 pm

I'm perpetually cheerful. I just look like I'm angry all the time. :) I had three people ask me why I was angry today. I wasn't. I was in a pretty good mood.


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19 Sep 2011, 11:08 pm

Well I would have issues that would buzzkill most people because I tend to be paranoid, and we know that most if not all NTs have a very harsh tolerance with that person who has Autism that likes to be paranoid, because I know I have angered people for it.



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19 Sep 2011, 11:26 pm

Jediyoda wrote:
I agree I kill NTs Buzz by stating logic, honesty, reason and commom sense. NTs just dont get it they get rather aggressive and start abusing me a calling me names and imitate me.


You just ruin the NTs fun when they're just playfully making up BS with their imagination. They very well know what the "common sense" thing is, usually.



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19 Sep 2011, 11:27 pm

swbluto wrote:
Jediyoda wrote:
I agree I kill NTs Buzz by stating logic, honesty, reason and commom sense. NTs just dont get it they get rather aggressive and start abusing me a calling me names and imitate me.


You just ruin the NTs fun when they're just playfully making up BS with their imagination. They very well know what the "common sense" thing is, usually.


Well in turn that is what drives the "Paranoid" factor in this mess supposely.



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20 Sep 2011, 1:13 am

I am Ms Awesometastic the Awesomely Awesome. I am only a buzzkill to people who don't meet my level of awesomeness.

Either that or I just leave if people are doing something that I don't like. Let them have their fun.


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20 Sep 2011, 1:19 am

My existence seems to be a buzzkill to some people I know...

Like in online games, when you've these NTs who have, say, level 2100 after 7 years, and I walk in with, say, level 2400 after playing for 1 and a half years...

It REALLY pisses them off.

We're not talking playtime here either, since mine is also a lot lower. Just that I don't waste ingame time as stupidly as they do.

And then they go feel all bad about themselves because they can't think properly enough to not waste their life doing useless crap...

Gaming is merely the tip of the iceberg, this happens even more often in real life.

"ZOMGWTFH4X you finished that project already?"

And so some of them have openly declared they'd rather I never existed.


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20 Sep 2011, 1:20 am

I am happy to kill the buzz, because buzzing is an annoying noise.



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20 Sep 2011, 1:40 am

btbnnyr wrote:
I am happy to kill the buzz, because buzzing is an annoying noise.


Lawl.

A free mythril flyswatter for you.

It'll probably kill the buzz better than that +3 nylon flyswatter you currently have equipped, and you deserve an upgrade.


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20 Sep 2011, 1:57 am

swbluto wrote:
Jediyoda wrote:
I agree I kill NTs Buzz by stating logic, honesty, reason and commom sense. NTs just dont get it they get rather aggressive and start abusing me a calling me names and imitate me.


You just ruin the NTs fun when they're just playfully making up BS with their imagination. They very well know what the "common sense" thing is, usually.


See this guy gets it ^



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20 Sep 2011, 11:43 am

This only happens with stupid NT's.. because they can't face me telling them the truth about what they're really saying :P they would have such a glorious moment trying to sound smart and then i'd interupt them and mention that it's all nonsense =P

if you make sense i won't annoy you, period.


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22 Sep 2011, 10:08 pm

YES!! !! :D


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22 Sep 2011, 10:11 pm

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Yes - and no. I do think Aspie logic is usually a buzzkill to NT's, my friends always referred to me as 'Gloom and Doom' or 'Worry Wart' when I would always point out the possible dangers of whatever dumb thing we were up to at the time...

But, NT's are a bigger buzzkill to me because they don't tend to want to learn anything - the biggest high I get from life is expanding my mind, knowledge is just so awesome and rewarding. NT's very nearly turned me against the world and everything in it because of their inability to think for themselves. It makes me sad, but I always have myself to rely on, and that is a blessing.

Sheeple (NT's) are the biggest buzzkills on Earth.


My Gp allways says I ask intresting questions :wink:


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22 Sep 2011, 11:13 pm

Surfman wrote:
The degree to which NT's have killed my buzz is far greater

You dont see NT's suffering stress related disorders like us, now do you?


roflamo, EXACTLY !~!
all my neighbors {half my age, btw} think I'm a cranky old lady, and definitly a buzz kill. They don't know, and don't care how much stress and anxiety they have caused me


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