Are you an as*hole or a b***h?

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12 Oct 2011, 1:41 pm

Define 'as*hole'. Define 'b***h'. Once you define those two, then I can tell you whether or not I fit either definition.

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12 Oct 2011, 1:44 pm

No. The only times anyone has called me either were in the heat of anger, which isn't really commentary on what one is generally like. I don't consider myself either. I can be, at times, b*tchy, but that's called being in a bad mood, which doesn't happen all that much.

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12 Oct 2011, 1:44 pm

Probably more of an as*hole. It takes some amount of social adeptitude to be a b***h.

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12 Oct 2011, 2:28 pm

This reminds me of a funny t-shirt I once saw...

"That's Mr. as*hole to you!"

As for the question... I'd rather be neither but if I have to choose I'll choose as*hole, though I have nothing against female dogs.

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12 Oct 2011, 2:29 pm

I don't see the logic behind this, either. Besides, people with Asperger's are not intentionally rude; they don't realize that what they said might be considered rude. I read that people with Asperger's are shocked to learn that what they said was rude, when someone points it out to them. People who actually are rude know that what they said was rude, but they don't care. So, people with Asperger's are neither b****ches nor a****holes.

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12 Oct 2011, 2:46 pm

I'm amazed at how many aspies are calling themselves a-holes.

I'm more of a b***h myself.

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12 Oct 2011, 2:49 pm

I went through a b***h stage in early adulthood. In becoming a b***h, I also became an as*hole. Looking back, it was a way to stay afloat in a series of chaotic environments and situations. At my core, I am not a b***h.

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12 Oct 2011, 3:18 pm

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Besides, people with Asperger's are not intentionally rude; they don't realize that what they said might be considered rude.

People with AS are just as capable of trying to be rude as any NT is. It's just that often NTs read in rudeness to stuff we didn't intend as rude - doesn't mean we can't be deliberately rude at other times.

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12 Oct 2011, 3:42 pm

This is what I am lol

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12 Oct 2011, 3:42 pm

I dont think I could keep up with being an as*hole and my past demonstrates being an as*hole doesn't usually work out. So I was probably a crappy as*hole.

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12 Oct 2011, 4:18 pm

LiendaBalla wrote:

:| 'sigh'

This.

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12 Oct 2011, 8:37 pm

I unintentionally insult other people pretty regularly and I have the choice between hating myself for it or embracing it. I used to do the former and, dang, I personally felt so awful about it but now I embrace it and shrug it off as inevitable. So, I guess you could say I'm unintentionally an as*hole and I've embraced it. I also occasionally am an as*hole on purpose...

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12 Oct 2011, 9:12 pm

I'm an as*hole. Sometimes intentionally, sometimes not. Either way, I'm just one of 7 billion as*holes on the planet.

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12 Oct 2011, 9:44 pm

Are you asking whether we're a-holes or b*****s, and suggesting that it's always one or the other, or do you mean a-hole/b***h/any number of unpleasant words while describing our general personalities?

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12 Oct 2011, 9:47 pm

sometimes i'm an assitch.

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13 Oct 2011, 10:18 am

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Besides, people with Asperger's are not intentionally rude;

Speak for yourself.
We're still human.

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