dianthus wrote:
Sometimes people just do not give you the opportunity to say no. I mean they do not ask openly, do you want to (whatever)? They just imply and assume your participation in whatever is happening. And next thing I know, something is happening I didn't expect and it's hard to get out of it.
Sometimes I also experience this.
I'm with the people who find it hard to say no. At my workplace, it
is really a problem. Basically, I let people go right over my head until I'm fed up with it and then act out of the norm and suffer its consequences...