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07 Oct 2006, 5:08 pm

For me it is not a matter of hating of NTs, it is about hating individuals, no matter what kind of "classification" they may be placed in.



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08 Oct 2006, 3:02 am

I was thinking that I would prefer calling the group that I have a personal problem with...FI...Functionally Insane...they tend to have a majority of its members of the NT persuasion but not all NT's are FI....and their may be some AS who are LFI....Lower Functioning Insane...


FI are those in our society,like GW Bush and Channey...who are very successful in society but are ruled by an insane greed and pathological disregaurd for life.....LFI are the people who tend to be socially awkward and not "successful" but identify with this group(think stockholm syndrom)and want to be just like them and think if they conform and follow this "popular kids" group it will rub off on them.They are the people who voted for them....

thats my take on it...


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08 Oct 2006, 3:02 am

I dont hate NTs I just hate what they consider "normal" and the incredible amount of potential they let go to waste both within themselves and within others.

As for hating people that I have to decide on a case by case basis.. but so far Ive never in my life actually hated anyone.. pitied them perhaps but never hated.

On the existential tangent there are objective absolute truths we are simply incapable of proving their existance since everything must be percieved subjectively.


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08 Oct 2006, 11:02 am

Unfortunately, the social skills that Aspie's have trouble developing are very important to the development of relationships between NT's. In adulthood, when Aspie's fail to display these skills, they often are misperceived as being purposefully rude, loud, insensitive, and disrespectful. Moreover, adult NT's, who have learned about Aspie's, must constantly reaffirm their patience and control over deeper emotional reactions caused by the Aspie's behaviors. Please realize that when NT's display these same types of poor interpersonal behaviors towards one another, it usually is a personal attack.

In childhood, the situation is much, much worse, as the untrained and immature NT children misunderstand the Aspie's behaviors and often respond in inappropriate ways, leading to serious forms of peer rejection and abuse. Perhaps Aspie's develop a redirected anger at NT's during these formulative years.

I think this thread is touching on a very, very important subject that can lead to healing. I hope it is discussed further.

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08 Oct 2006, 11:28 am

Unknown wrote:
I only hate the NT's that have a problem with our existence.


Same here.



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08 Oct 2006, 2:05 pm

Would it be wise to riseup and fight, {peacefully} all of us as a whole demanding recognition and respect not because we have AS but because we are people too.



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08 Oct 2006, 2:11 pm

Alternative wrote:
Unknown wrote:
I only hate the NT's that have a problem with our existence.


Same here.


Me too.


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08 Oct 2006, 2:23 pm

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I think I get a bad attitude towards them as a group (which I shouldn't) because I've had bad experiences with some of them. It isn't rational for me to do that, but there it is.
Indeed--I have the same problem. Aspies, too, can be irrational.


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08 Oct 2006, 8:28 pm

I don't hate NTs in general. I hate some of them.



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08 Oct 2006, 8:59 pm

I'm trying not to hate nt's but i feel that the anger i have towards them is something i'm in the process of working thru. I know it's wrong to hate them, but i can't deny the feelings of anger i have.
I feel i'm just in a hate nt's phase right now.


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08 Oct 2006, 9:44 pm

Some of them I find are just so "in your face" I really hate it especially if they are strangers who do not know me. For that reason I am very distrustful of strangers.



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08 Oct 2006, 11:30 pm

Unknown wrote:
I only hate the NT's that have a problem with our existence.


Yeah, this has sense. I think if I hate NTs because they are different, I would do exacltly the same thing that I hate you about them.



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09 Oct 2006, 12:18 am

I don't hate NTs.

Is it possible to hate a person, not just what they do? That is a question I am still trying to answer.



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09 Oct 2006, 1:31 am

My grandfather had cancer, and let an NT doctor treat him. I never saw my grandfather again.

When I go to school, it is always an NT teacher handing out assignments.

When I go to work, my NT boss tells me what to do.

Hitler was an NT.

If I ever have a daughter, she'll probably date an NT.

NTs are so obnoxious, with their "body language" and their "non-obsessive interests in subjects."



09 Oct 2006, 2:13 am

I dont hate NTs. I hate ignorents, bigots, prejiduce, (spelling), KKK, perverts, Pediphiles(spelling), and of course criminals.



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09 Oct 2006, 2:44 am

>>I dont hate NTs. I hate ignorents, bigots, prejiduce, (spelling), KKK, perverts, Pediphiles(spelling), and of course criminals<<

Do you hate the actions they carry out, the mind that decides on these actions or the people themselves as a whole? Is there any difference?
Don't forget that there are crimes of necessity and self-defence. People in the KKK may have been brainwashed from a young age to think what they're doing is right. Pedophiles have a mental illness and don't see any wrong in what they're doing. I am not justifying any of these peoples actions, merely giving a different viewpoint.