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If having a child, do you want a boy or girl?
Female wanting a male child 15%  15%  [ 9 ]
Female wanting a male child 15%  15%  [ 9 ]
Female wanting a female child 15%  15%  [ 9 ]
Female wanting a female child 15%  15%  [ 9 ]
Male wanting a female child 10%  10%  [ 6 ]
Male wanting a female child 10%  10%  [ 6 ]
Male wanting a male child 10%  10%  [ 6 ]
Male wanting a male child 10%  10%  [ 6 ]
Total votes : 60

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14 Oct 2006, 10:33 am

If I did, it probably wouldn't matter. I'd just want them to be a good person.



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14 Oct 2006, 6:06 pm

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In the extremely unlikely event that I had a child, I would want a boy, no question. I think I'm particularly unusual in that I'm a female who generally dislikes other females.

I'm beginning to wonder if this anti-female thing is something that's permanently ingrained. I recently looked at my collection of around thirty stuffed animals, and realized that by the age of five or less, I'd only decided that two of them were girls. One of these is because it has clothes and is dressed to obviously be a girl, and one is named after a character in a comic it resembled, and the character was female. :?


I think you would be suprised how much female company you have on this issue.I tried several times to make female friends....they were so mean(and dull).


I still have the difficulties with men that I'd expect to have with any NTs, but they don't... disgust me in the way that NT women do. Disgust is a strong word, but I think it's accurate here. They're so unbelievably shallow, crying and making a fuss because they broke a nail or their partner forgot their birthday, or spending hours over their hair. My brain just doesn't function on a level where I could consider something like that important.



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14 Oct 2006, 6:12 pm

Hovis wrote:
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I think you would be suprised how much female company you have on this issue.I tried several times to make female friends....they were so mean(and dull).


I still have the difficulties with men that I'd expect to have with any NTs, but they don't... disgust me in the way that NT women do. Disgust is a strong word, but I think it's accurate here. They're so unbelievably shallow, crying and making a fuss because they broke a nail or their partner forgot their birthday, or spending hours over their hair. My brain just doesn't function on a level where I could consider something like that important.

Will you marry me? :wink:


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15 Oct 2006, 5:40 am

Mnemosyne wrote:
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I don't have to tell you why.


Maybe you do, because I can't figure out why.


Come on Sherlock Holmes, you can work it out, unless you are an NT. I will give you a clue 1. I have Aspergers Syndrome 2. I have a rotten time because of it.



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15 Oct 2006, 12:37 pm

Aspie_Chav wrote:
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I don't have to tell you why.


Maybe you do, because I can't figure out why.


Come on Sherlock Holmes, you can work it out, unless you are an NT. I will give you a clue 1. I have Aspergers Syndrome 2. I have a rotten time because of it.


I think we all have a rotten time to a certian extent. 8)



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15 Oct 2006, 1:07 pm

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I still have the difficulties with men that I'd expect to have with any NTs, but they don't... disgust me in the way that NT women do. Disgust is a strong word, but I think it's accurate here. They're so unbelievably shallow, crying and making a fuss because they broke a nail or their partner forgot their birthday, or spending hours over their hair. My brain just doesn't function on a level where I could consider something like that important.


Yep...the reason I spent everyday praying for a boy when I was pregnant. Remember when every girl was trying act like a "Valley Girl" in the 80's? I still have nightmares.... 8O


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15 Oct 2006, 2:22 pm

I have two sons and love them very much, I'm female and I always wanted a daughter as well but couldn't afford it and had to have a tubal ligation done.



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15 Oct 2006, 3:13 pm

Either i just want him/her/them to NOT BE A POPULAR KID!! !


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15 Oct 2006, 5:02 pm

MrMark wrote:
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I still have the difficulties with men that I'd expect to have with any NTs, but they don't... disgust me in the way that NT women do. Disgust is a strong word, but I think it's accurate here. They're so unbelievably shallow, crying and making a fuss because they broke a nail or their partner forgot their birthday, or spending hours over their hair. My brain just doesn't function on a level where I could consider something like that important.

Will you marry me? :wink:


:lol:

The best way to annoy NT women is to be female yourself and refuse to play their little games. Enormous fun.



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15 Oct 2006, 10:44 pm

Aspie_Chav wrote:
Mnemosyne wrote:
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I don't have to tell you why.


Maybe you do, because I can't figure out why.


Come on Sherlock Holmes, you can work it out, unless you are an NT. I will give you a clue 1. I have Aspergers Syndrome 2. I have a rotten time because of it.


Nope. Still don't get it. Your life sucks because you have AS = you want a daughter? I don't see the connection. How does having a daughter make your life suck less?



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16 Oct 2006, 12:49 am

Mnemosyne wrote:
Aspie_Chav wrote:
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I don't have to tell you why.


Maybe you do, because I can't figure out why.


Come on Sherlock Holmes, you can work it out, unless you are an NT. I will give you a clue 1. I have Aspergers Syndrome 2. I have a rotten time because of it.


Nope. Still don't get it. Your life sucks because you have AS = you want a daughter? I don't see the connection. How does having a daughter make your life suck less?


Boys are more likely to have AS. I knew this before I even learned about AS.