Mego wrote:
Ria1989 wrote:
Fnord wrote:
Just because you may be paranoid, it does not mean that they are not out to get you.
I wish I didn't agree with this. There's a reason to be paranoid even if you're not aware of it. The reaction to the paranoia is what causes people to be put off.
I dont mean you are because I think people can sense if they feel paranoid.
like reaction in what way?
Maybe...I mean the guy also threatened me and then when I reacted by removing him from Facebook...he said i was crazy. However, I really don't know why someone would threaten someone and not expect them to freak out. Anyways, it does not matter because he was the only person I have really had any problems with and he told me that (exact wording) "Its not my prerogative for you to understand, its just how you want to see it" , which does not make sense to me...
Yes. This is how people with negative intentions (someone listed this above) react when you react. They want you to react! It goes with bullying; the less you react and the more you blow it off or say something witty back, the easier it is to transition into another dialogue without people suspecting you of being a victim. When you react, they know you care and they take advantage of it and say something ignorant like "she must be paranoid". He now has control over you. Stop it!
I just reread everything you wrote in this thread, and it seems like you are a very caring person. A lot of people aren't! They say things that come to their mind without dwelling on the meaning or the consequence of their doing. A lot of people simply don't give a darn unless you're like them.
Thanks for the feedback. I am pretty sure the guy is a narcissist...many people even suggested it plus there are tons of people who absolutely despise him. Most of the problem I had is that I didn't play pretend with him...some of the things he said were blatant lies and BS ...so I pointed it out ...not to make him wrong but to point out that he made a mistake. Example: he accused me of waking him up because I sent a late night text, cursed and everything, even put the time. He made it believable......except that when he sent the text it was 5 am (the time he was getting up for work) and his text read "its 12 am you f*****g woke me up you asswipe!! !" Plus he just signed onto chat around the time i sent it so I knew he was awake. I am pretty sure it was no mistake my phone made yet he expected me to apologize and just go with what he said.
20 Feb 2012, 11:02 pm
