Cogs wrote:
Callista wrote:
It's boring. I don't have a TV and don't want one. It's too slow, and not complex enough to be interesting, and I lose track of all the faces anyway. All of those pretty actors look the same to me. Nothing against pretty actors; I'm just face-blind and can't tell them apart half the time.
Same for me except my family owns a TV, they complain that I never watch TV with them. I'm also not interested in the social dramas, dating dramas etc. that seem to dominate many TV programs, I dont mind a fast paced sci-fi thriller though, but have a hard time watching it all in one go. The inability to notice emotions, non-verbal communication etc. I think also causes me problems.
Have you considered bringing your book or whatever and sitting with them, ignoring the TV? If they ask you why, you can just say, "I don't like TV but I wanted to hang out with you"--which should communicate decently that you are avoiding TV not because you're avoiding your family but because you just don't find it entertaining.
Headphones are probably required to block out the tv sound... that may not be as "social" a gesture... but I guess sometimes you have to compromise to make sure the NTs around you know that you still like them. In their world, you have to tell somebody repeatedly that you like them, instead of telling them only once and then notifying them if it changes. So to speak their language sometimes you have to be pretty redundant. Ah, well, they're people too and you can't really fault them for being different.