What do you hate most about NTs? (No offense intended)

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A few things which I would list, and have gotten from some NTs.....although I'd probably use "find annoying" instead of "hate"

- the attitude/belief that Aspergers (or any form of autism) is connected with mental retardation.

- that if you have Aspergers, you should be able to get on disability and qualify for other government assistance.

- sometimes it's forgotten that I may have Aspergers, I'm expected to act NT, and get fussed at when that doesn't happen.

Well, I do border on Mental retardation. But I only border on Classic Autism and Asperger Syndrome. Mostly because I have developmental delays yet odd intelligence with writing, reading and remembering things that tends to baffle people, especially in school when I could memorize things I was taught verbally and pass my tests with flying colors without having to study from a sheet of paper. I still struggled with homework, organization and poor learning skills. >_< Most of my NT experiences are what let do really bad experiences that have literally scarred me from doing things I should be doing because of the ignorance for my Autism and ADHD combined.

The fact that they've screwed up the world and yet act so superior.

Bahahahaha where is the LIKE button, Im NT, and Im boggled at why Im called and Idealist so often cause I talk about how simple it would be to fix alot of things,,,,but get told its not that simple



hell yeah it is...but most people with the power to change things dont want it changed....cause God forbid the playing field get fair. God forbid we see how many answers to problems the earth has for us, without us needing to rape it continually, How so very many wars are unnecessary, and how blind most people are to the real intentions of Governments.

so many people complain in Australia, about welfare...what they forget, that it wouldnt be necessary if we just looked after eachother, and helped our family members who need it...even people that are not family......but everyone wants it to be someone elses problem...yet complain when their taxes are used in part to support disability pensions, etc....



sorry I must stop myself before I start ranting again. I must also apologise for my poor spelling and grammer...my fingers are an extension of my mouth,,,which runs pretty fast,,,mostly without filters lol

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For me the kind of planning I have a hard time with is multiple steps over a long period of time. For example I want a college degree so there are class requirements that I need to meet as well as structuring my class schedule in a way that isn't overwhelming (like taking 3 hard classes one semester and 3 easy ones the next semester). Then I have trouble sticking to the plan over a long period. Even with the help of a counselor I find this difficult. Seems much easier for most people to do long term planning. Really hard for me to get from A - Z with all those other letters in the middle.

It really frigging bugs me, when NT people think it's easy fixed. We have this 'family friend', as such, who is an alcoholic and she doesn't understand anything. I will do something a bit 'weird' and she'll say 'oh you need tablets, you're not normal, go get some help.' She doesn't effing understand that I AM NOT BROKEN, I CAN NOT BE FIXED, THIS IS HOW I WAS BORN! Her kids are far from perfect, and I'm fairly sure her 9 year old has a similar thing to Austism...yet the mother drills in to her head that she has 'anxiety'. It's not a good look for a 9 year old to be walking around saying 'Oh it's because of my anxiety'. I am sick to death of trying to hide my aspie-ness from people. If they don't like my slightly unusual habits (Mainly Horses, Music and playing Guitar)...then they can FARK OFF.

It also bothers me when I get bullied and called phsyco because I react differently to things than other people. People just don't understand.

Oh yes, people can be annoying about this. They ask what I do when I don't want to talk about myself, or say something I don't want to hear
about.


It's in fact a branch of small talk. But one of the worst. Because then, when you are in front of the people who has been gossiped, then I feel so bad, especially if it was bad gossip.


Well that would be ok if we were not forced in some way to be interested in these things in order to socialize.


Oh yes I feel quite the same. Of course there is room for progress, but essentially I will not change that much.

"Hate" is a strong word. Let us not use it, ok? There is already too much "Us" vs. "Them" going on in the world today. I sure do not intend to add to it!
That being said, there are some annoying traits lots of them seem to have:

Asking questions about sensitive issues, but expecting a Little White Lie so as not to have their feelings hurt? Hey, I am not vindictive or cruel, but if someone asks me if some piece of clothing makes their butt look big.,. I probably will say so if its true!

The constant bending of rules by my employers. Oh, so frustrating! I thought the Ideal of the big companies that I have worked for in the past matched mine. Guess not..

Small talk. Uggh, this is so pointless!

Women playing hard to get. Since I have trouble reading your body language to begin with, this looks like rejection to me!

The constant equating of Autism with Mental Retardation. Enough said!

I think that covers the biggest ones for me..

Sincerely,
Matthew

Small talk
Endless gossip
More endless gossip and small talk
The fact that much social interaction is fake (such as asking someone how they are when they don't really want an honest answer)

Also:

Judging people as defective because they are different or like different things to the norm
Judging people as defective because they are not social butterflies

These things do not make a person less human...

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Being indirect bothers me the most, also lying to be polite, the truth does hurt but it is that pain that drives all of us to better ourselves and isn't that what we all want I know I do.

It is inspiration that drives us to better ourselves, not pain. Pain is destructive and tends to be more soul destroying than anything else.

It is inspiration that drives us to better ourselves, not pain. Pain is destructive and tends to be more soul destroying than anything else.

To me, "NT" means not being curious. And being curious means .. not being sure about anything, ultimately. And so I guess I'm sort of NT now, because I mostly just want to be done with this place (Earth, whatever it is).

If the world were to not be so capitalistically enchanted, I'd be more willing to stick around.. but, let's face it, I just don't like people in general. Oh sure, some people are sexually attractive on a physical basis, but somehow, on a deeper, more intellectual level, I've never met anyone who really seemed interesting to me. Invariably, when I bring up interesting topics, the other person will become frightened. Or, the other person will talk about obviously 'nonconformist' topics, like zombies or giant maggots or whatever.. ZZzzzzzzzzz.

Still, I am optimistic at my core and so I think maybe someone out there could exist, yet, it never happens, and so I must conclude that such entities exist outside this weird place. Perhaps I crafted this place into what it is today and if so, what can I do now? It strikes me as being too much work to redirect the vector, such that I would put in more effort than I would receive in enjoyability.. And I am willing to accept that this may be entirely my fault.

Still, regardless of that, the reset button is there, waiting, whether I'm a big jerk/inept controller/whatever

But even once I'm gone, yes, be curious, be interested, ask yourself, 'what makes this true?' and if you can't find a satisfactory answer, then it is not true. What other explanation can there be?

As destructive as pain is, it is an effective tool for learning what not to do if not evolution would have discarded it for something better.

I become exasperated by the constant lying and the constant need for small talk.