Is there a way to make friends on wrong planet?

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I have PM'd users here who don't even bother to reply.

More often than not they reply. However, mostly they were females who didn't even bother to send one single reply as an acknowledgment. Males at least kept up corresponding for a while. There are nice exceptions, though.

Is it because these women have major tickets on themselves ? It seems their a few who are that way around here ?

What ever.

Some friendships are not worth it

I agree.

What does major tickets mean?

I've noticed that most men on the spectrum are both aggressive towards and completely incompetent at interacting with the women that they are interested in. This defeats the standard canard of us not having enough "confidence"; in fact, I'd call it too much.

The result is that many of the women on forums like this feel overwhelmed by negative attention from the men, as though the women are front-row tickets to a major music concert. This is hurtful to the women as they feel intimidated and undervalued as a legitimate member of the community.

Thus, many women might not respond to personal messages, even to other women. So, please don't feel shunned if many of the people you PM don't get back to you; they may just not be comfortable with you yet.

I was about to ask the same.

♦ have (got) tickets on oneself (Austral)
informal to be conceited

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Oh.... my bad.

Australia has some real beauti's

Rock spider- Sydneysider slang for pervert sneaking about the cliff boulder shoreline, perving at naked sun bathers

Baldies- under-age prepubescent girls

Boiler- older women(like boiling a tough laying hen)

Battler : someone working hard and only just making a living

Bogan : person who takes little pride in his appearance, spends his days slacking and drinking beer

Budgie smugglers : men's speedo style bathing costume

http://www.koalanet.com.au/australian-slang.html/

...at least you cant call AussieBloke a sycophant...

People here are going to be mentally ill to some extent (socially in the least), which is the complete opposite that someone with an ASD needs; people with ASDs generally need stability in regards to friends and whatnot, and others with such [or some other mental disorder] aren't the most stable people around.

So, "outlook not so good", in other words.

I have to agree with you here! I have received messages from men who wanted me to send them pics of my naked body but weren't interested in getting to know me as a person, with the result that I am sometimes leery of responding to personal messages from males. I have also had someone contact me in a friendly fashion but who then backed off when I mentioned my fiance.

The pursuit of friendships is highly over rated, and is responsible for lowering the IQ of many[who snuggle together and go 'hehehehehe']

Also these bonds are usually transient, and many suffer when friendship and love is lost... Work hard to raise a family... work hard to pay child support...

Society underwrites relations, if your different from the norm[common denominator] your relations suffer according to society.

Caesars ugly mob influence's your relations by stint of group consciousness

Emotional intelligence and happiness increases though with friendships?? hehehehehehehehehe

so yeah

take your pick

by your logic then... WP is a harmful place for aspies? hmmmm

expressing angst in an appropriate forum space, or discoursing friendship dynamics, is bad?

Then I must be doing something else that might be considered offensive or simply boring...