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theWanderer
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30 Sep 2012, 8:47 pm

OuterBoroughGirl wrote:
I experience significant difficulties with executive dysfunction, particularly with organizing and planning. It's pretty much impossible for me to figure out all of the various tasks necessary to achieve a particular goal, or how to obtain the information necessary to achieve a particular goal. Often it doesn't occur to me to do certain expected tasks at all -- I just don't think of it. Or I may know of several tasks I should do but be unable to prioritize -- unable to figure out what tasks or more important, and which are less important. I also tend to be unable to figure out the logical order in which to complete tasks. I also have problems with breaking tasks down into a series of logical sequential steps (which others seem to do instinctively, as far as I can tell) so it's pretty much impossible for me to get things done in an efficient and timely manner. Sometimes, I can't seem to get started on things because there are too many things that need to be done, and I can't figure out where to start. There are just too many options, and it paralyzes me. It's also difficult to achieve that mental switching of gears necessary for starting a task. I could go on and on regarding how I'm crippled by executive dysfunction. The upshot is, I feel like I put forth far more effort than other people, and accomplish far less. I know I've said that multiple times before on this forum, but it's a source of ongoing frustration for me.
I hope this was helpful. Another impairment of mine involves explaining things in a way that can be understood by others. I apologize if this makes no sense. :oops:


I thought it made sense - but then, I struggle with many of the same issues. And when I try to file things - I can never figure out what label / tag to put them under. "Automotive" / "Car" / "Vehicles" / "Machinery" ??? I end up filing one thing in one place, then making a new file with a new label because I can't remember the old one. Every filing system I've ever set up, paper or digital, has deteriorated into utter chaos within a very short time.

Now that I've figured out what was "wrong" with me, at least I'm finding I can do a little better at figuring out how I work and trying to work with that instead of against it, but there are still huge areas where I'm helpless.


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30 Sep 2012, 10:17 pm

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Executive functioning is a lot for me of not being able to plan, organize, feel motivated to get stuff done, or basically "get my crap together" as I like to say. Figuring out how to work around it is another matter.


Ah, yes, the motivation thing. After many years of battering my head against it, I've finally figured out how to sit down with a large problem, break it down into small sections and make a plan of action. It's taking the action that's often an issue for me.

Right now, I have a private research project that I'm "working on." I've put that in quotes because, although I've had the source data for a month and I've planned out what steps need to be taken and what the later steps -- broadly -- are, actually taking the first steps is extraordinarily difficult. It doesn't seem to matter that this is something I'm actually excited about and that I get a great deal of pleasure from contemplating it and discussing it with others. I just can't seem to get started.