HDLMatchette wrote:
JellyCat wrote:
I want to make videos about my life with Aspergers and other conditions, but I'm afraid that people I know in real life will find them :S.
what's the worst they could do?
Assume I'm a lesser person because of my Aspergers, and treat me as such.
I had to leave school at the age of 12 due to stress (I'm now 15)
Where I come from, everyone is ambitious career wise, has plans to go to uni, and they look down on anyone who doesn't go onto further education, and especially 'school drop outs'. They look at people who don't go to college or uni as lazy, worthless, idiotic of pieces dirt, who you shouldn't go anywhere near.
They could treat me the same way as people stereotypically treat people with IQs under 70.
There was a girl who obviously had a condition at my last mainstream school (we were never told what condition), looking back it could have been autism, and people bullied her so badly for it. She had no friends (people assumed she didn't want friends, because it's a normal thing to want, or that she didn't understand friendship ), and was permanently miserable.
People could fear me, think I'm a mass murderer.
I might never be-able to make new friends.
They could stop me from getting a job.
They could assume I'm thick, I was horribly bullied for being "stupid" in school (I'm not stupid (My writing skills are not a good indication of my intelligence, I've had a terrible education, and have several learning disabilities), a girl who was in my class saw me as someone she could easily put down to make herself feel good, so she said horrible things to my face, and behind my back, which lead people to believe all sorts of false things about me). It really affected me, and there's no way I'm risking anything like that happening again.
To name a few reasons.