Your Position on Maslow's Hierarchy?
Filipendula wrote:
Where would you place yourself on Maslow's Hierarchy? I'm curious to know how far up most WP people feel they are. If your position isn't clear please post comments to explain. Also post comments just to elaborate generally if you want to.
Google Maslow's Hierarchy if you're not familiar with the model, Google Images provides many good example pyramids. But in brief the levels are:
5.Self-Actualisation (morality, creativity, spontaneity...)
4.Esteem (self-esteem, achievement, mutual respect)
3.Love/Belonging (friendship, family, intimacy)
2.Safety (security of health, livelihood, property, family etc.)
1.Physiological (the physical requirements for human survival)
...and the idea is that you shouldn't be able to move up a level until you've fulfilled the criteria for the one below, although in reality we're all in several positions at once broadly speaking.
love/belonging
Google Maslow's Hierarchy if you're not familiar with the model, Google Images provides many good example pyramids. But in brief the levels are:
5.Self-Actualisation (morality, creativity, spontaneity...)
4.Esteem (self-esteem, achievement, mutual respect)
3.Love/Belonging (friendship, family, intimacy)
2.Safety (security of health, livelihood, property, family etc.)
1.Physiological (the physical requirements for human survival)
...and the idea is that you shouldn't be able to move up a level until you've fulfilled the criteria for the one below, although in reality we're all in several positions at once broadly speaking.
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nessa238 wrote:
So imagine yourself homeless with no money and nothing to eat - now tell me what are you going to focus on - your morals or finding somewhere to sleep/stay and eat?
I don't "have enough to eat". Because of my disability I don't have the ability to reliably feed myself, and thus am having problems with being low on some nutrients. I live in a house that we can't afford to heat, my bedroom is regularly under 50 degrees when I wake up, and we need to make sure that we are managing to keep the pipes from freezing.
I do have a roof over my head. I do have one meal a day. I'm not in as bad of shape as other people. But its still not that simple.
You'd say according to this hierarchy that people in this situation, who cannot reliably afford to buy food because they are that low on money, who have a disability that interferes with eating at all, then interferes with a well balanced diet. Who lives in a house where they can't afford to heat, where they can't afford to pay the bills for electricity, where they can't afford rent, or any of that. That they would at the very least be focusing on the security level.
But as a whole people here aren't. People here are doing exactly what you are saying to Callista that she wouldn't do if she didn't have no money. Yesterday we couldn't afford to buy food for dinner and ate leftovers from coffee hour at church because they gave us the leftovers. But, the focus isn't on that, its still on things like what a teacher does for their students, or a mother for their children, or volunteering tutoring autistic students, or helping drug addicted teenagers overcome addiction, or designing robots that do new interesting things at a company that doesn't pay yet because that's what is this person's life. And that's even before getting to the level of morals, people necessarily don't suddenly break morals because they are poor and hungry. The poor, the homeless, the hungry, aren't dangerous just because they are poor. They don't suddenly make different decisions. They don't suddenly act differently.
Maslow's Hierarchy is of needs ie once one set of needs is met a person focuses on the next level up
Generally, this follows the food, safety, belonging, love etc path
It isn't about not having any morals when you're hungry, it's about what a person's main focus is according to what their situation is
And your examples weren't the same as having nothing to eat ie being very, very hungry
If I said to such a person do you want something to eat or a debate about morality - what do you think they would be likely to say?
(yes we know that if it was you, you'd want the morality debate, but I'm talking about the average person)
It's not an either/or thing, it's what would be most peoples' main focus
Most people need enough to eat and drink before they can focus outwards/upwards on other things, that is the essence of the hierarchy of needs concept
nessa238 wrote:
Callista wrote:
I disagree with the hierarchy. I tend to turn it upside down--things like morality and achievement, being who I am, doing the important things I'm meant to do, are more important to me than basic needs like food, sleep, and security.
Unless I have a purpose in life, I can't live. Nothing else matters. I'd rather be doing something important than be safe, warm, fed, and housed.
You ever read "Man's Search for Meaning"? That's pretty much the way I see it. The guy who wrote it was a psychologist who lived through the Nazi concentration camps. There's a lot of talk about finding purpose and meaning in life.
Unless I have a purpose in life, I can't live. Nothing else matters. I'd rather be doing something important than be safe, warm, fed, and housed.
You ever read "Man's Search for Meaning"? That's pretty much the way I see it. The guy who wrote it was a psychologist who lived through the Nazi concentration camps. There's a lot of talk about finding purpose and meaning in life.
If you didn't happen to have somewhere safe to live and enough to eat, believe me - that would be your main focus, so it is in the right order of priorities.
So imagine yourself homeless with no money and nothing to eat - now tell me what are you going to focus on - your morals or finding somewhere to sleep/stay and eat?
I'm not the only one who objects to Maslow's hierarchy being applicable universally. Quite a few psychologists tend to agree that people need meaning in their lives. Without meaning, you lose the will to live, lose the will to keep yourself fed and sheltered.
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Callista wrote:
nessa238 wrote:
Callista wrote:
I disagree with the hierarchy. I tend to turn it upside down--things like morality and achievement, being who I am, doing the important things I'm meant to do, are more important to me than basic needs like food, sleep, and security.
Unless I have a purpose in life, I can't live. Nothing else matters. I'd rather be doing something important than be safe, warm, fed, and housed.
You ever read "Man's Search for Meaning"? That's pretty much the way I see it. The guy who wrote it was a psychologist who lived through the Nazi concentration camps. There's a lot of talk about finding purpose and meaning in life.
Unless I have a purpose in life, I can't live. Nothing else matters. I'd rather be doing something important than be safe, warm, fed, and housed.
You ever read "Man's Search for Meaning"? That's pretty much the way I see it. The guy who wrote it was a psychologist who lived through the Nazi concentration camps. There's a lot of talk about finding purpose and meaning in life.
If you didn't happen to have somewhere safe to live and enough to eat, believe me - that would be your main focus, so it is in the right order of priorities.
So imagine yourself homeless with no money and nothing to eat - now tell me what are you going to focus on - your morals or finding somewhere to sleep/stay and eat?
I'm not the only one who objects to Maslow's hierarchy being applicable universally. Quite a few psychologists tend to agree that people need meaning in their lives. Without meaning, you lose the will to live, lose the will to keep yourself fed and sheltered.
I think you don't understand how it's meant to work
You're reading it far too literally
You will have to explain how I am being too literal.
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nessa238 wrote:
Callista wrote:
You will have to explain how I am being too literal.
It's needs-based
People need food to keep them alive - that's why it's the first need
People can survive without being loved or having status, that's why it's a higher need
as less vital to being alive
Many people willingly give up access to the lower levels in favor of the higher ones. For example, think of a mother who buys medicine for her child with her own food money. She is sacrificing the bottom level (food) for a higher level (family, companionship, reproduction). Most mothers would do this. Religious people very commonly fast in order to understand their faith more clearly. There are people who will sacrifice their own safety in favor of achievement (soldiers, policemen, firemen, paramedics, etc.), and most would do so to help someone in danger if there were no other way. There are many, many people who have sacrificed their own well-being for values on the higher levels of the hierarchy. Most people occasionally do. And people who are poor, hungry, unsafe, or unloved are not automatically unable to do useful things. In fact, it's poor people who are often the most generous, because they know what it's like to have very little. People who have suffered abuse and rejection are often the least willing to abuse or reject others. And of course there are the many situations where people have gotten into serious danger because of their own unwillingness to compromise their morals.
The idea that we can't access higher level needs until we've fulfilled lower-level ones just doesn't sit right with me. Those are all important things and I think they sit roughly at the same level, not one on top of the other.
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Callista wrote:
nessa238 wrote:
Callista wrote:
You will have to explain how I am being too literal.
It's needs-based
People need food to keep them alive - that's why it's the first need
People can survive without being loved or having status, that's why it's a higher need
as less vital to being alive
Many people willingly give up access to the lower levels in favor of the higher ones. For example, think of a mother who buys medicine for her child with her own food money. She is sacrificing the bottom level (food) for a higher level (family, companionship, reproduction). Most mothers would do this. Religious people very commonly fast in order to understand their faith more clearly. There are people who will sacrifice their own safety in favor of achievement (soldiers, policemen, firemen, paramedics, etc.), and most would do so to help someone in danger if there were no other way. There are many, many people who have sacrificed their own well-being for values on the higher levels of the hierarchy. Most people occasionally do. And people who are poor, hungry, unsafe, or unloved are not automatically unable to do useful things. In fact, it's poor people who are often the most generous, because they know what it's like to have very little. People who have suffered abuse and rejection are often the least willing to abuse or reject others. And of course there are the many situations where people have gotten into serious danger because of their own unwillingness to compromise their morals.
The idea that we can't access higher level needs until we've fulfilled lower-level ones just doesn't sit right with me. Those are all important things and I think they sit roughly at the same level, not one on top of the other.
I don't know how to put this any more basically - without food your body won't operate and you die
All the higher stuff is more of a luxury as it's a choice
By all means focus on whatever higher purpose you like if you're starving to death but personally I'll just focus on finding food!
Then when I've had enough to eat I'll focus more widely
I can see you aren't going to last 5 seconds if an apocalypse occurs - all the moral dilemmas
will make you incapable of taking any action!
My "position" is that this is a two dimensional linear way of viewing life and the human experience. Neither life, nor human beings are two dimensional or linear, therefore the hierarchy serves no useful purpose.
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MrXxx wrote:
My "position" is that this is a two dimensional linear way of viewing life and the human experience. Neither life, nor human beings are two dimensional or linear, therefore the hierarchy serves no useful purpose. 

Well I find it a very logical and accurate depiction of human needs and the order in which they
tend to get fulfilled in - my life definitely adheres to it
Perhaps I'm just a 2-dimensional person and this is why I fail to relate to most people as they have this third dimension I'm missing?
To give an example
When I am depressed the most I can manage to do is stay alive by eating and keep warm and sheltered by staying in bed
I often wont want to or be able to leave the hosue due to feeling too anxious
When I start to get better I will be able to leave the hosue hence I feel more safe and secure ie ive moved up a level
Then I will begin to look more outwardly as my own needs have been met so I can look at re-connecting with friends and family or attending events out in the community, so I have more of a sense of belonging
I might look for a partner
I might then feel able to look for a job to give me self esteem
then I might feel positive enough to start doing the self-actualisation stuff
and also help others along the same path
Hence there is a very logical upward path that I have taken myself many times
so it definitely works as a route map for me
nessa238 wrote:
I can see you aren't going to last 5 seconds if an apocalypse occurs - all the moral dilemmas
will make you incapable of taking any action!
Au contraire. Helping each other is how people survive apocalypses.
will make you incapable of taking any action!
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Callista wrote:
nessa238 wrote:
I can see you aren't going to last 5 seconds if an apocalypse occurs - all the moral dilemmas
will make you incapable of taking any action!
Au contraire. Helping each other is how people survive apocalypses.will make you incapable of taking any action!
They need food and shelter first and foremost though and this will be their main focus
nessa238 wrote:
Callista wrote:
nessa238 wrote:
I can see you aren't going to last 5 seconds if an apocalypse occurs - all the moral dilemmas
will make you incapable of taking any action!
Au contraire. Helping each other is how people survive apocalypses.will make you incapable of taking any action!
They need food and shelter first and foremost though and this will be their main focus
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Callista wrote:
I disagree with the hierarchy. I tend to turn it upside down--things like morality and achievement, being who I am, doing the important things I'm meant to do, are more important to me than basic needs like food, sleep, and security.
Unless I have a purpose in life, I can't live. Nothing else matters. I'd rather be doing something important than be safe, warm, fed, and housed.
You ever read "Man's Search for Meaning"? That's pretty much the way I see it. The guy who wrote it was a psychologist who lived through the Nazi concentration camps. There's a lot of talk about finding purpose and meaning in life.
Elizabeth Kubler-Ross wrote about that as well, and pointed out that the children in the concentration camps would draw butterflies on the walls.Unless I have a purpose in life, I can't live. Nothing else matters. I'd rather be doing something important than be safe, warm, fed, and housed.
You ever read "Man's Search for Meaning"? That's pretty much the way I see it. The guy who wrote it was a psychologist who lived through the Nazi concentration camps. There's a lot of talk about finding purpose and meaning in life.
nessa238 wrote:
If you didn't happen to have somewhere safe to live and enough to eat, believe me - that would be your main focus, so it is in the right order of priorities.
So imagine yourself homeless with no money and nothing to eat - now tell me what are you going to focus on - your morals or finding somewhere to sleep/stay and eat?
So imagine yourself homeless with no money and nothing to eat - now tell me what are you going to focus on - your morals or finding somewhere to sleep/stay and eat?
I disagree that these levels have to be achieved in a particular order. I can be in a position of not knowing how this month's bills are going to be paid or whether I'll be homeless next month (have been there many times) and still tend to pay more attention to another level in Maslow's hierarchy. I think his theory, as present here, is flawed or at least too simplistic. Of course, if one is actively starving or cold, for the moment, one is going to focus on overcoming that for the present. But that's an aberrant situation, or should be, temporary. It's not a "normal" condition of humanity, and it doesn't mean someone who is hungry is at level one as a person. One can also have low self-esteem and still be spiritually oriented, and so forth.
I haven't read Maslow, so I'm not sure what a more elaborate explanation of his hierarchy might involve, but the way it's presented here, I can't answer either.
Callista wrote:
nessa238 wrote:
Callista wrote:
nessa238 wrote:
I can see you aren't going to last 5 seconds if an apocalypse occurs - all the moral dilemmas
will make you incapable of taking any action!
Au contraire. Helping each other is how people survive apocalypses.will make you incapable of taking any action!
They need food and shelter first and foremost though and this will be their main focus
I never said a person wouldn't join with others - they'd do anything to enable them to find food
as food is necessary to live
You are looking too deeply into a simple diagram in my opinion
It's not meant to be looked at moralistically, just practically