Do you have other relatives on the spectrum?

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Do you have other relatives on the spectrum?
Yes, I have one or more close relatives on the spectrum with an ASD diagnosis/suspected ASD; 43%  43%  [ 26 ]
Yes, I do have one of more relatives (not close ones) with an ASD diagnosis/suspected ASD; 16%  16%  [ 10 ]
I have both close relatives and non-close relatives with an ASD diagnosis/suspected ASD; 15%  15%  [ 9 ]
No, I don't; 16%  16%  [ 10 ]
I don't know. 10%  10%  [ 6 ]
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30 Dec 2012, 6:42 pm

Half of my kids and half of my parents (and half of my parents' kids). :lol:



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30 Dec 2012, 11:41 pm

Nephew has diagnosed Autism, and is LFA.



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31 Dec 2012, 12:12 pm

dyingofpoetry wrote:
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I'm the only Aspie in the family. I have 12 first cousins, and none of them are on the spectrum. 2 of my cousins, my brother and one of my aunts, seem like they're PDD-NOS, but still have better social instincts than I have, and don't have special interests or frequent outbursts like I have. They're probably just shy and maybe a little bit socially awkward.
When one of my youngest cousins was born, I always thought he might be an Aspie. When he was a toddler, the teachers at preschool noticed he wasn't mixing that well, and he also had noticeable speech delays and was still in nappies at the age of 5. But he suddenly quickly grew out of those when he got to about 8, and now he's 15 and is always out with mates after dark and doing all the other social activities typical teenage boys do. Well, I know he is definately not Aspie, I just thought he might be in his early years of life.

But I still consider myself the only one on the spectrum on my family. I've always wished for somebody else to have AS or Autism (or any other disability, for that matter), so that I won't feel like I'm the only one that doesn't go out at week-end nights. It seems everyone here seems to have at least one relative close to them that is on the spectrum.


Joe90, for a long time after I was diagnosed, I was sure I was the only autistic in my family, but after hearing from others how often it is inherited (if genetic) or just appears (if not genetic) from parent to child, I began to take a genuinely unbaised and objective look at some of my closer relatives and realized that both my mother and sister are on the spectrum (though undagnosed), but I could not see it because I was a bit too close to them. Also, AS is a bit tougher, in general, to see in woman than in men.

In the case of my mother, she spent most of her life being taken care of by my father, so i never noticed how much she struggled in many ways when left on her own. My sister has also never been diagnosed, but she has other developmental disorders that make uit difficult to see the autistic traits. If I look futher out, possible my mother's father had AS as well, but he would heavily self-medicate with alcohol. Anyway, to sum it up, sometimes it looks like you are the only one, but also sometimes it's just hard to see in others.


No, I know I'm the only Aspie in my family. Yes, like I said, two or three of my relatives may have some noticeable AS traits, but none of them seem as typical as me and their traits don't get in the way of their lives like mine do.


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31 Dec 2012, 4:30 pm

My nephew was recently diagnosed with HFA.
My father had schizophrenia but my sister suggests he was probably AS as well.



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01 Jan 2013, 6:43 am

I suspect several maternal relatives, going back a few generations. I don't suspect any paternal relatives, but I do have paternal relatives who have been diagnosed with ADHD and ADHD-PI.



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05 Jan 2013, 12:46 am

I wouldn't be surprised if ASDs (or at least touches of them) are spattered throughout my mom's non-touchy (no one says "I love you", etc.), blunt-talking, and, in some members, depression-affected family. On a similar(?) note, we have LOTS of confirmed dyslexics, from my dad and sister to multiple cousins.



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05 Jan 2013, 12:52 am

I am as-yet undiagnosed, but I have a close relative who may also be on the spectrum. Personality-wise, he's a younger version of me in many respects.

Charges wrote:
I wouldn't be surprised if ASDs (or at least touches of them) are spattered throughout my mom's non-touchy (no one says "I love you", etc.), blunt-talking, and, in some members, depression-affected family.

This part sounds a lot like my family. None of us are really outwardly affectionate; anxiety and hints of depression abound.



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05 Jan 2013, 1:17 am

Well, one of my brothers has dyslexia and severe learning difficulties- plus, he has problems with fine motor skills...He has a lot of autistic traits and my mum said he seemed autistic when he was a child, so I'm not sure. My nan (my father's mother) seems like a textbook-case Aspie; enjoys solitude; she was never married and told me she only wanted a child,and no life partner, plus she lives has been living alone for goodness knows how many years. She's been misunderstood by everyone that knows her to be "rude" and "bluntly honest", never taking other's feelings into account when remarking about something. She has strict routines- and like me, she doesn't like people coming around unexpectedly; we always have to call first. She always has collected ornamental figurines and fridge magnets- she got once had a meltdown when they got broken; let me just go as far as saying that "I was educated 'first hand' on the concept of corporal punishment". ;)

Also, my half-brother on my father's side has an ADHD diagnosis, but he has so many Aspie traits that have lead me to believe he was misdiagnosed; he makes no eye contact, he monologues about his special interest- aeroplanes and collectable models, he doesn't express his emotions 'conventionally' and appears to have no interest in anyone that doesn't share his interests- luckily, I share a few! :) He also seems to have some problems with authority; he recently got expelled from his school.

There are probably others in my family- or there at least will be: my my two year old nephew seems to show a lot of traits- one day his mum found him lining up grapes in a straight line...but I'm still the only one with a formal diagnosis.


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05 Jan 2013, 1:42 am

I chose the first option. There is a good chance my mother has some form of autism as well, she even said herself that she suspected it when she heard about autism lots of years ago but didn't go into detail as she had the common prejudice of "the autist who is unable to do anything and is isolated from the world". Now she is reading a book I gave to her and it seems to remind her of herself. :roll:


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