kamiyu910 wrote:
I keep having trouble with this whole high functioning or low functioning terminology. I can't tell who is what, everyone seems pretty equal to me. I have no idea what I would be considered (especially since I'm waiting to get an actual diagnosis). How can anyone tell what someone is, online or in person?
You can't. The terms have very little meaning. I've been called both.
For the most part, "high-functioning" means that the person using it has a subjective idea that you are better off than some other people with your disability, in some way, perhaps independence, skills, intelligence, or just plain
looking less autistic.
I hate those terms, honestly. It seems like whenever they're trotted out, it's to deny you something. If you're "high-functioning", you obviously don't need help; if you're "low-functioning", you can't do this or that and therefore get denied a lot of opportunities. I resist quite strongly whenever someone tries to push me into a box like that.
I completely agree with you. Besides following the HFA and LFA terminology we all have high and low areas.