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28 Jan 2013, 4:54 pm

A lot of my laughter is internal; I usually just crack a smile. I do occasionally laugh out loud when I find something extremely funny, but it's still rather quiet. I don't know that I could describe exactly what it is I find funny, though; it seems to be a case of "I know it when I see it". It may be irony, slapstick, surrealism, black humor, absurdity, word play, or any other number of things, but it all depends on the individual joke or gag and who is performing it.

I tend to have a spontaneous, stream-of-consciousness style of humor, making jokes as they occur to me. They aren't always appropriate, but then, I tend to make them more for my own amusement than others.



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28 Jan 2013, 5:01 pm

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Unfortunately I've encountered many people in the mental health profession who see us as a set of stereotypes. Usually it's people who read a bunch of crap or take a workshop but have no experience with ASD. I'm not sure why you're seeing this person but if it's for ASD related issues are you sure you want to be someones learning curve?

If you want to work it out with him you just need to be honest with him. Tell him, "I have some concerns that I need to discuss with you" and let him know what your concerns are. If he's an experienced psychologist he will not be offended. Believe me he's heard crazier sh** than "I'm concerned that you may be inexperienced in ASD."


I've now emailed him some links (and quotes) about humour in AS, one of which is a research study, to put him straight on the matter!


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28 Jan 2013, 5:20 pm

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Unfortunately I've encountered many people in the mental health profession who see us as a set of stereotypes. Usually it's people who read a bunch of crap or take a workshop but have no experience with ASD. I'm not sure why you're seeing this person but if it's for ASD related issues are you sure you want to be someones learning curve?

If you want to work it out with him you just need to be honest with him. Tell him, "I have some concerns that I need to discuss with you" and let him know what your concerns are. If he's an experienced psychologist he will not be offended. Believe me he's heard crazier sh** than "I'm concerned that you may be inexperienced in ASD."


I've now emailed him some links (and quotes) about humour in AS, one of which is a research study, to put him straight on the matter!


Did you put it in context for him? As in- you are sending this because you are concerned that he thinks you don't have AS because of humor?



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29 Jan 2013, 7:15 am

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Unfortunately I've encountered many people in the mental health profession who see us as a set of stereotypes.

I know what you mean.
Like that psychologist who though I couldn't have Asperger's because I "smiled and laughed too much".
I can barely accept these stereotypes coming from people who are ignorant about the subject, but coming from someone who should know more things on the topic... It's just ridiculous.



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29 Jan 2013, 8:11 am

A bit dark and unusual. I find that people find me the funniest when I happen to unwittingly share a continuous stream of thought when I am speaking. They seem to find my thought processes rather humorous, which after I finish the thought, I usually do as well.


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29 Jan 2013, 10:33 am

This is the first thing I thought of when I saw your post title. Humorous, or just associative-- you tell me. :)Image



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29 Jan 2013, 10:49 am

My humor tends to be very punny, and I think it's funny when people groan at my jokes. My mind does weird things with word association and rhyming.


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29 Jan 2013, 2:45 pm

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This is the first thing I thought of when I saw your post title. Humorous, or just associative-- you tell me. :)


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29 Jan 2013, 2:46 pm

Rascal77s wrote:
whirlingmind wrote:
Rascal77s wrote:
Unfortunately I've encountered many people in the mental health profession who see us as a set of stereotypes. Usually it's people who read a bunch of crap or take a workshop but have no experience with ASD. I'm not sure why you're seeing this person but if it's for ASD related issues are you sure you want to be someones learning curve?

If you want to work it out with him you just need to be honest with him. Tell him, "I have some concerns that I need to discuss with you" and let him know what your concerns are. If he's an experienced psychologist he will not be offended. Believe me he's heard crazier sh** than "I'm concerned that you may be inexperienced in ASD."


I've now emailed him some links (and quotes) about humour in AS, one of which is a research study, to put him straight on the matter!


Did you put it in context for him? As in- you are sending this because you are concerned that he thinks you don't have AS because of humor?


Not really, but if he can't pick up on that then he shouldn't be in the job! :lol:


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29 Jan 2013, 3:18 pm

Darn it. It was a graph of the four humors of Hippocratic medicine.



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29 Jan 2013, 3:55 pm

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This is the first thing I thought of when I saw your post title. Humorous, or just associative-- you tell me. :)Image


Hmmn, either I'm having yet another one of my moments where I don't understand the joke, or this is too obscure for me!


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29 Jan 2013, 4:56 pm

I can laugh at some jokes, but quite often I may laugh or smile at stuff that isn't funny at all. I also keep going on and on with the same jokes until people tell me face to face that it's not funny..



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29 Jan 2013, 10:25 pm

WardenWolf wrote:
My humor tends to be very punny, and I think it's funny when people groan at my jokes. My mind does weird things with word association and rhyming.


Yes, yes! Puns, puns and more puns! Love them. Example: washing dishes with my wife, handing her an oddly spoon shaped utensil with a long handle and saying something like "maybe I'll see you ladle? Better yes, lets have a date...you get'em from the fridge". Sometimes the stupider sounding ones are even funnier to me.

I can literally watch hours of M.A.S.H. just for Alan Alda's Hawkeye's character's endless puns.

Also, almost in the inverse, I also enjoy pointing out the literalness in innuendo, subtext or implication heard when the literal interpretation is extremely obvious, is immensely amusing if not funny to me.

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29 Jan 2013, 11:27 pm

I love funny stuff! I like oddball stuff like Monty Python, and just Brit humor in general (Red Dwarf, AbFab, Father Ted). I like situation comedy -- REAL situation stuff like The Office or the old Dick Van Dyke Show, rather the punchline-a-minute style of today's sitcoms. I also love puns and inside joke kind of stuff. I LOVE the Marx Brothers. Groucho's one liners crack me up. Not a Three Stooges fan, but I'm not sure why because I enjoy some slapstick and visual humor, such as genius silent comic Harold Lloyd. I also like standup comics, but they have to be really smart and clever -- favorites include Louis CK, Lewis Black and Christopher Titus.

As for myself, I'm told I'm really funny. I'm not good at telling the long, drawn out jokes. I prefer the quick short ones that cut to the chase. I'm good with the witty comebacks, and I have a really good memory for remembering and retelling bits from standup comedians. From all the laughs I get, I must do it pretty well.

One place I DO have problems with is laughs at my expense. I seem to always take it personally and can never tell when they're joking. And for some reason, many times people will say something to me, I'll take it literally and make a comment or explanation about it. When they say "Hey, I was just kidding around," I'll act like I knew it all along and say something like "Yeah, I knew that. I was just saying..."



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30 Jan 2013, 1:21 am

whirlingmind wrote:
Rascal77s wrote:
whirlingmind wrote:
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Unfortunately I've encountered many people in the mental health profession who see us as a set of stereotypes. Usually it's people who read a bunch of crap or take a workshop but have no experience with ASD. I'm not sure why you're seeing this person but if it's for ASD related issues are you sure you want to be someones learning curve?

If you want to work it out with him you just need to be honest with him. Tell him, "I have some concerns that I need to discuss with you" and let him know what your concerns are. If he's an experienced psychologist he will not be offended. Believe me he's heard crazier sh** than "I'm concerned that you may be inexperienced in ASD."


I've now emailed him some links (and quotes) about humour in AS, one of which is a research study, to put him straight on the matter!


Did you put it in context for him? As in- you are sending this because you are concerned that he thinks you don't have AS because of humor?


Not really, but if he can't pick up on that then he shouldn't be in the job! :lol:


Don't mean to sound antagonistic or anything but are you using that as an excuse to avoid confrontation? Some confrontation is necessary for proper communication. Especially where open communication is mandatory, like in therapy sessions.



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30 Jan 2013, 1:31 am

In real life I am a master at deadpan and dark humor.

The best kind.

Deadpan humor is easy for me because my natural lack of facial expression and tonality gives me a sizeable advantage.