I have a Facebook account, but totally hate it. I like to separate things and stages in my life. I was emotionally tortured in childhood and adolescence by the whole school. I was a bit odd, but I don't want them to know that I have both a mental illness and Asperger. This would give them fuel to keep thinking bad things about me. I also progressed through many stages of mental illness. I am not ashamed, but I want to keep my life private and in the moment looking forward not backwards.
I have only 2 "people" on Facebook marked by friends. One is my ex-boyfriend. He's a nice guy, and cool to talk to (or still snuggle with). The only reason he's my ex is that he is unreliable, meaning he's not always there physically. He also has problems. The other friend is a therapy dog who I consider my sometimes pet. I have a huge list of people who want to friend me even though I don't know who they are, and they are only labeled as "friend of so-and-so." I don't care who their friends with, but I do know I don't know who they are and am not interested in "friending" them. I did look up some kids I went to high school with, but their lives are so unlike mine and I was afraid of telling them the truth so I didn't say anything at all. (I don't have the man, the job, and the kids.) Also, I got an email from one of the bullies, and she explained how she "felt bad" about how she treated me. Hopefully, she does feel bad.
What I'm afraid of is if an future employer asks if I use Facebook. What am I supposed to say? That I don't really use it. That half of my 2 friends is a dog. (No, this is not Nick/Disney Channel. There's a series about a dog who uses the computer on one of those channels. Oh, what you learn from babysitting!) Well, back to employment, I know they will ask this, but what am I supposed to say. Need help!
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