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loner1984
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24 May 2013, 9:31 pm

Yeah for me its the same, that the more im outside and near other people the more i feel sad.

Its like, imagine you didn have any legs, and you could go out to people who where running around playing football.

It just makes it worse. then your brains starts with this whole "what if" , maybe its just an illusion, maybe im not different, maybe maybe.

Im actually most happy alone and most unhappy when near others. because constantly being reminded that im different isnt really that cool.



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24 May 2013, 10:02 pm

loner1984 wrote:
Im actually most happy alone and most unhappy when near others. because constantly being reminded that im different isnt really that cool.


The above is a reason that I support offline Aspie groups. Socializing is usually easier when dealing with simular neurological and processing styles.


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24 May 2013, 11:21 pm

Hmm... weekends can be pretty tough, for the reason that I don't really know how they're going to plan out. During the week, I have more stability.

Of course, if I think of the weekend as a part of the greater routine of the week in general, then I usually adapt a bit better to it. The whole thing becomes a numbers game, where I know the weekend is coming up, and so I plan for the randomness a little more efficiently.


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25 May 2013, 10:55 am

I LOVED the weekend when I was younger.



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25 May 2013, 5:29 pm

I used to like the weekends when i was working as it was a break from all the travelling to and from work and the actual work so I liked it. Now I dont' work, life is far less stressful but also gets boring and weekends feel worse somehow. The TV programmes arent' as good and I often go back to bed for most of the day and read the newspaper, listen to the radio and sleep, just to pass the time.

I wouldn't want to go out the hosue anywhere as there will be more people about

I am happier when Monday comes and it's like i'm back in a work frame of mind, even though I'm not actually working and I will then focus on any paperwork I need to do and go out the house for anything that needs doing and will feel better for this even though it is stressful


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