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19 Oct 2013, 4:34 pm

Joe 90, you don't have to apologize for liking buses. Someone else in this thread also does. We all have our quirks, whatever works.



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19 Oct 2013, 4:35 pm

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My special interest/enjoyment is buses

You considered getting a bus licence?

From very young I loved articulated lorries, and it was a joy to me to finally get to drive them.



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19 Oct 2013, 4:36 pm

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Special interests help an awful lot with depression. Doing things what you enjoy and makes you happy is good for anyone who suffer with depression, so it is especially ideal for Aspies who suffer with depression. My special interest/enjoyment is buses, and I know it may sound crazy, but I really want to work somewhere where I need to get a bus to. I like getting buses, so it might motivate me more to come to work. I am familiar with a lot of the drivers and most of them are friendly, and I like seeing which driver will be driving it today and sometimes I have a little chat with them before I get off. To other people that sounds daft, but to me it's what I like. The job I'm in now is local, which is good, but I want to get a bus to a job. I'm sorry, I just do. It's the only thing that might help with my depression, without having to go on meds.


I don't think it's strange. I love riding buses.

I have spent the last 2 months riding buses around every day I can...sometimes I get off the bus to visit the coast on the way but sometimes I just ride the bus around all day.

I ride around from buxton norfolk to norwich to sheringham to cromer, to fakenham to hunstanton to north walsham etc.

On Tuesday I rode buses all day, today I travelled for about 3 hours on a bus to get to sheringham and back so I could go swimming. I have a pool closer than that but I wanted to go for a bus ride so I went to the one that was further away.



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19 Oct 2013, 4:40 pm

devochka wrote:
Joe 90, you don't have to apologize for liking buses. Someone else in this thread also does. We all have our quirks, whatever works.


ME ME I like buses. I thought I was the only person that did!



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19 Oct 2013, 4:41 pm

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I ride around from buxton norfolk to norwich to sheringham to cromer, to fakenham to hunstanton to north walsham etc.

I didn't know Norfolk had a Buxton.

But then - it was years before I realised you had a Kings Lynn.



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19 Oct 2013, 4:49 pm

doofy wrote:
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I ride around from buxton norfolk to norwich to sheringham to cromer, to fakenham to hunstanton to north walsham etc.

I didn't know Norfolk had a Buxton.

But then - it was years before I realised you had a Kings Lynn.


We do indeed have a Buxton, or more specifically a Buxton with Lamas, Lamas being another small village that joined with the parish of Buxton some years ago.
And yes, there is a Kings Lynn but I have not been there yet..I will eventually...on the bus lol



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19 Oct 2013, 4:58 pm

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And yes, there is a Kings Lynn but I have not been there yet

I have. Not as nice as the real Kings Lynn but it's OK...



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19 Oct 2013, 5:00 pm

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Either that or i stay in bed watching shark movies and documetaries all day. I love shark related stuff.

Sharknado? :D


I have my eye on that at amazon but I have not seen the movie yet.

There's a good compilation of scenes on youtube. *giggle*


I shall look them up.

I have seen

Dino shark
Jaws 1 to 4
Shark attack 1 to 3
Sharktopus
mega shark in malibu
Deep blue sea
Shark night
Shark week


And a few more I can't recall right now.



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19 Oct 2013, 5:01 pm

doofy wrote:
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And yes, there is a Kings Lynn but I have not been there yet

I have. Not as nice as the real Kings Lynn but it's OK...


Where is the real kings lynn?



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19 Oct 2013, 5:06 pm

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I have seen

Dino shark
Jaws 1 to 4
Shark attack 1 to 3
Sharktopus
mega shark in malibu
Deep blue sea
Shark night
Shark week

Jaws and Deep Blue Sea are excellent.

You considered branching out into crocs with eg Lake Placid?



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19 Oct 2013, 5:33 pm

doofy wrote:
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I have seen

Dino shark
Jaws 1 to 4
Shark attack 1 to 3
Sharktopus
mega shark in malibu
Deep blue sea
Shark night
Shark week

Jaws and Deep Blue Sea are excellent.

You considered branching out into crocs with eg Lake Placid?


I have a mega piranha movie but no crocodile movies. I have seen lake placid though :P



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19 Oct 2013, 5:49 pm

Wow, I think this is turning into something like an FB discussion string.



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19 Oct 2013, 7:58 pm

bumble wrote:
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And yes, there is a Kings Lynn but I have not been there yet

I have. Not as nice as the real Kings Lynn but it's OK...


Where is the real kings lynn?

Cornwall.



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19 Oct 2013, 8:16 pm

The two people who like riding buses: I don't know where either one of you lives, but maybe you want to get together and ride buses together? Then you will have some company - each other. Just a thought.....



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19 Oct 2013, 8:26 pm

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The two people who like riding buses: I don't know where either one of you lives, but maybe you want to get together and ride buses together? Then you will have some company - each other. Just a thought.....

They could meet at Cambridge bus station...



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Joe90 wrote:
Loneliness can cause depression. It has for me. And yes, depression can be a mental illness. My depression comes in bouts, and last week I had a terrible attack of depression. Nothing in particular started it off, it just came upon me and I began feeling worthless and even suicidal, and I just wanted to quit work and lie in bed getting myself lost in films all day every day, and maybe going out and socialising whenever I feel like it. But I knew that if I did that, I would just be letting myself down.

Depression is making me not want to go to work, though. I am not being lazy. I just don't feel comfortable with the idea of having to be somewhere, and being told when to eat and so on. I'd sooner do voluntary work, even 5 or 6 days of the week, but I can't because I need to earn money, so I am trying my hardest to stick at my job, until I can find another job what I really want to do.

Special interests help an awful lot with depression. Doing things what you enjoy and makes you happy is good for anyone who suffer with depression, so it is especially ideal for Aspies who suffer with depression. My special interest/enjoyment is buses, and I know it may sound crazy, but I really want to work somewhere where I need to get a bus to. I like getting buses, so it might motivate me more to come to work. I am familiar with a lot of the drivers and most of them are friendly, and I like seeing which driver will be driving it today and sometimes I have a little chat with them before I get off. To other people that sounds daft, but to me it's what I like. The job I'm in now is local, which is good, but I want to get a bus to a job. I'm sorry, I just do. It's the only thing that might help with my depression, without having to go on meds.


That doesn't sound daft. I have/had a huge interest in computers and during times of depression, the only thing that got me to work was the fact that there were computers there and I could do things on/to them that I couldn't do at home. Computers have been a Special Interest of mine for a long long while - so I don't think it sounds crazy at all that catching a bus could be good incentive to go to a job where you need to catch a bus to. I've proven Special Interests can be good motivators for all sorts of things - even living.

P.S.
Perhaps you and bumble should get together. You both live in the same country (albeit a rather large one), you're both a similar age and you both have buses connected to your special interests.

P.P.S.
You made me think - I've been rather lazy in the studying of my special interest lately although I'm collecting masses and masses of literature and reading about it literally 24/7 (waking hours of course) but I'm not studying. Just reading lots of what other people have to say about it - and that made me feel a little bit lazy/guilty.

What made me think was your interest in bus drivers. I guess with your special interest, there isn't a lot of studying/learning and that makes me feel a bit better because I guess it's not all about learning - just enjoying. What do you think?


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