Pippi wrote:
Olive, I love your "rules" for photos/decor! I tend to absorb things/observe without realizing it and then suddenly end up realizing I have a really definite structured system for things like that. (Usually I realize when answering questions like this post!)
It's not just me about those "rules" though. It's what I've basically picked up from thinking or hearing others say, when someone does something tacky in their house.
BTW, for my rules I forgot to mention that if you don't have a separate living room, then use the rules for the den.
I don't have many people-photos up, though I do take lots of photos of family and friends and come from a family where there are one or two in each generation who take a ton. For a long while, having photos up reminded me too much of wakes/funerals. Now it's more that I'm bad at sorting through them, editing them, then making choices about which ones to print up and then getting around to it and then figuring out where to put them.
I can top the reminding you of funerals thing. In my family we actually take several pictures of the dead person in the casket. Some relatives actually have them blown up and hang them in their house. My Aunt Louise had a whole wall in her living room of big black and white pictures of dead relatives in their caskets. It was above the piano. She had a den too and hung them in the living room. That's not the main reason that it's tacky. If someone doesn't get it, I can't explain it. Hanging pictures of dead relatives in their caskets isn't covered under any rules I know because it's only one step away from dead relative taxidermy in my opinion. At least she grouped them all together.
This is one reason why, when I'm dead and embalmed and put in my casket for the viewing, I want my eyes left open dammit! 1. It takes tons of tries to get a picture of me with them open now, while I'm alive. I'd like my final one to be a good one. 2. This will prevent anyone from taking a picture of me. Maybe. 3. It'll freak the f**k out of everybody because nobody will be expecting it.