LoveNotHate wrote:
I cited a website of an AS person as an example where the AS child had to pee but was earlier told that no one can leave the classroom. The child did not know that "needing to pee" could be an exception to the rule of "no one leaves the classroom". Somehow NT people know that certain events can supersede rules and AS people don't. So, when the AS child pees in the classroom, and the teachers asks, "How come you did not ask to use the bathroom?". Everyone laughs when the child says, "You said no one could leave", and the child is tormented later with "you lack common sense".
Interestingly, I believe that the behaviour of the AS child in this example could actually caused by extremely
flexible thinking rather than excessive rigid thinking.
Presumably, the NT child knows the following rules that are relevant to this situation:
1) If I need to pee, I must pee immediately
2) If I need to pee, I must do it in the bathroom
3) The teacher has told us not to leave the room
If the NT child needs to pee, then rules 1) and 2) override rule 3). So they leave the room to use the bathroom.
For the AS child who can think flexibly, rules 1) and 2) need not be rules at all. Yes bathrooms are designed for peeing, but that does not necessarily mean one must pee in the bathroom. It is not a logical necessity that one must pee in the bathroom. So the AS child only has rule 3) to go by, and so stays in the room.
In summary:
extremely flexible thinking may appear on the surface as extremely rigid thinking. Be wary of descriptions of AS people as very rigid inflexible black and white thinkers. I believe this is a myth, created by misinterpretations of stories like the one quoted.